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WHY DONT GUYS CARE ANYMORE!!!! I don’t want a nonchalant I need a man who knows what he wants
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Anonymous 60w

Because women treat us like stocks options. Nothing but arbitrary numbers to be deemed worth it: he got to be tall, he got to make good money… And if we happen to not meet your arbitrary standards, we are deemed as creeps

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Anonymous 60w

I mean I know what I want, I just can’t obtain what I want.

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Anonymous 60w

Guys do care. They’re just bad at showing it. A lot of them are uncomfortable with anything resembling vulnerability or dependence due to their socialization. They think being disaffected and self-sufficient is cool. It will take time for them to show their hearts.

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Anonymous 60w

I feel the same way just about women, I want someone who cares and knows what they want, idk the dating scene is becoming to worthless

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Anonymous 60w

When we show we care you take advantage of it, your ego gets inflated and you start to ignore us and spend more time by yourself. When we act non chalant you annoy us on purpose to get a reaction out of us. How about you be decent and just be nice. It ain’t complex.

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Anonymous 60w

Do you actually want to know? It’s not pretty

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 60w

Not everyone is like that….

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 60w

pls be real

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 60w

Literally those are standards men think all women want bc those are the men that can’t actually do things for a woman so they project bare minimum ideology. We don’t care about those things to an extreme but to act like we’ll tolerate a man who is broke and not financially stable in this economy is low

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 60w

Majority of women don’t care about height or wealth. Most normal, everyday women just want a man who is respectful, kind, and treats her well. Yes, financially stability does matter for BOTH. Men and women who make sweeping generalizations are only keeping themselves single and bitter

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Anonymous 60w

I think that’s what men confuse it as. “We want men with money” aka pay for my stuff. Everyone works now bc stuff is so expensive. I don’t NEED you to buy my things. Would it be nice if you did? Sure. That’s a very gentleman courtesy and I’d feel grateful. But to just always go out and you never have the funding bc you spent it on something you didn’t need at that time. Like say always gambling, weed addiction etc. then absolutely not

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Anonymous 60w

Do ppl not deserve rights now 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 60w

What do you want

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 60w

A serious long term relationship with a woman who I can get out with for dates, play some video games with from time to time, work out together, give each other our physical needs of affection, about a 50 50 on finances, and hopefully become husband and wife till we die of old age 😞.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 60w

You would be suprised

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 60w

Tbh the guy has a good point, not everyone is like that but seems hard to find those who arent.

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 60w

Yes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 60w

Women date above them, men can’t get a girl looks matched with him. Marriage is a scary gamble for men and their assets, and possibly losing their children. Women don’t act like women anymore, men and being prevented from being able to provide.

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 60w

Wym act like women

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 60w

No lmao, and honestly if we do treat it like that’s it’s bc guys treat girls bad either way so why would we let a short broke guy treat us bad when we could have a tall rich guy treat us bad instead

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 60w

Cause the meat game be having you trippin asfff

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 60w

But why is it then when presented with that most women seem to go for guys who don’t posses those traits?! Like there’s guys who have never been given an opportunity with a woman and then there’s guys who get tons of dates but treat women like garbage!

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