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Is it bad that I think my seasonal depression is kicking in and I feel turned off from sex with my bf? Like I feel bad cause ik he wants to have sex for his birthday. But I just don’t wanna.
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Anonymous 18h

no, that's not bad. it's not good to have seasonal depression ofc but in the way that you mean, like should you feel guilty about it? absolutely not.

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Anonymous 14h

There’s nothing wrong with not wanting it. You should never do it just for him and if he’s the right one he would understand and not be upset. If you don’t want to do it for his birthday then that’s fine. He can get it when you want it

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Anonymous 11h

1. People are never owed sex point blank 2. If my partner didn’t want to have sex I wouldn’t want to either. The idea of sex with somebody who doesn’t actually want it with me is repulsive. This is the natural response of any semi decent human. 3. Depression fucking sucks and I hope things start getting easier (meds and a SAD lamp maybe?). Keep fighting.

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Anonymous 14h

i mean the sex just won’t be good, because you’re clearly not feeling into it right now. u guys can still do other physical stuff ykno

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Anonymous 13h

It’s not bad at all to not want to have sex!!!! If you already know he’s wanting/expecting it though I’d just give him a heads up that it’s not on the table

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Anonymous 15h

Seasonal depression in the very beginning of fall is kind of wild. It was summer literally like 2 weeks ago

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Anonymous 14h

Don’t be surprised when he cheats. If I wasn’t so ugly and I had a girl, and she refused sex on my birthday, of course I’m going out to find it elsewhere, as any real man with a drop of testosterone in his blood would

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Anonymous 18h

Damn not fucking bro on his bday is crazy but fuck it if ur feeling off then he just gotta lock in and accept it. U can make his day in other ways !

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Anonymous 14h

I bet you would for chad

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 18h

How is not having sex on his birthday crazy??

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

please ignore this guy he is a freak and a misogynist

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

It’s not the end of the world I just feel like I’d wanna have sex on my birthday and my girl would too on her bday. If something comes up or if you’re feeling a type Of way then no one’s entitled, I would just be sad about it. The important part is just showing and feeling loved on the birthday

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

Beestboy is a well known asshole here. Please ignore him

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17h

You can attack me all u want but nothing I said is crazy. Even op herself said “I feel bad because he wants to have sex on his bday” and then when I say yea not wanting to have sex on his bday does suck, not sure where the plot is being lost 🤷🏻

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15h

Idk where you are but it’s been raining for ages where I am. It’s grey and depressing as shit out here bro. Just cause you don’t understand something doesn’t mean it’s not real

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

just block it it’s always on these posts being misogynistic asf

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 13h

What the fuck is wrong with you!

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 13h

no wonder you’re an incel. ugly and shitty personality? pick a struggle

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 13h

Says the man with incel in the name lol

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

Silence hypergamous moid

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

Any real man would not cheat. Don't speak on what a real man is when you barely equal a quarter of one.

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

Your not owed anyone’s body dumbass but also your religion you tend to quote so often would be disgusted by you if they saw how you speak because your committing multiple sins bud

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12h

Theirs winter and summer depressions. Winter being fall/ winter and summer being spring/ summer.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 12h

I’m not hypergamous I asked out women 3x my weight and they still rejected me. I would literally date any woman on the planet, but no woman on the planet would ever date me

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

What significance does this hold. At this point you’re just saying shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12h

People love me and say I have the best personality they’ve ever seen. And so yes you admit I’m an incel because I’m ugly and it’s not about personality

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

I read the Bible

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Anonymous replying to -> mryikyak 12h

Wrong, real men stand up for themselves. Men with high testosterone cheat way more statistically as well. Only betas or people who can’t get another girl don’t cheat. I’m probably 10x the average man be real

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

i said you’re an incel because of your looks and personality, learn to read

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

Ok and? Sex isn’t everything. If you can’t go a birthday without sex from your significant other then we got problems

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

he’s gone all his birthdays and all the other days in the year without ever feeling the touch of a woman or being in a relationship. don’t listen to him

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

Lmao "betas". The only people that use that term are those who are deeply insecure in their masculinity. What would your mom say about this?

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

so ur a beta since ur a virgin incel 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 12h

You clearly haven’t read the Bible

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

So you’re saying you don’t care about consent? Which means your okay with rape is that actually what your saying

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

And clearly you haven't either if you're trying to fall back on it as an excuse for how you act. Pathetic if you call yourself a follower when you can barely follow it.

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Anonymous replying to -> mryikyak 12h

I speak with my mom about this all the time and she agrees and says that girls in this generation are nothing compared to girls in her generation and that she feels bad for me And I’m not insecure with my masculinity

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

We said seasonal depression. Obviously he’s going to get it again. Just not right now. Because the cheating is just you giving into the lack of self control

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12h

Yeah and my personality is good So then it’s just my looks

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12h

Yes

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

Clearly you are since you feel like you need to define what being a man is by trying to put others down.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 12h

Also you sure as fuck don’t follow the Bible if you actually read it you would know it hates rapists and people who support it I assume you would throw stones at the woman caught in adultry not a disciple of Jesus but a Pharisee

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12h

No I’m a virgin incel because I’m Indian and ugly not because I’m a beta It’s because women are racist and lookist

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

But also if we go off of our societies standards and Americas women have their own autonomy and they again don’t owe anyone their body

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

Personality wise you seem shitty

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

It’s his birthday what did he do wrong?

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

If you are a virgin why do you speak on this saying you would cheat???

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12h

Don’t you feel bad for me I’ve never even gotten a single hug or a smile or to hold hands. Nothing. Just total isolation all alone in the cold forever It couldn’t happen to a sweeter boy, and yet it’s happening

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

No it’s because your personality is shit and you use words like foids and you say women need to submit to you I wouldn’t care if someone was Indian as I’m not racist but you. Your are horrible and evil but also I’m trans so I doubt I would be safe around someone like you

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

Ok? Just cause it’s his birthday he deserves sex? He doesn’t!

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

thinking women should have sex even when they don’t want to is rapist mentality btw

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

And the Bible is also against adultery it’s actually listed as one of the Ten Commandments so clearly you didn’t read it very well

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

People are not entitled to sex. Even if it is their birthday.

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

Men aren’t owed sex what part of this aren’t you understanding

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Anonymous replying to -> mryikyak 12h

Real men assert their authority like me. Look at Trump, that’s what made him President. I wanna be the same

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

People rave about how great of a guy I am irl, they actually think I’m gay because they can’t understand how I don’t have a gf

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

Oh no… gtf off my post

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

Yeah trump the guy who currently made most of the republicans on the senate remove any mention of him from their endorsements because he’s just that popular🙄

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Anonymous 12h

26 inch waist and my tits bounce when I walk please watch your tone. Get your disgusting Y chromosome away from me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 12h

Trump the man who broke the first amendment

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 12h

Trump the man who said he purposely walked in on minors naked is he really your hero?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

Ok then that’s what I’m saying he’s gonna cheat because you say he doesn’t deserve it, he will find a girl who thinks he does deserve it

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

Sorry but you don't have any authority bubba. I laugh when I see people like you who think they're hot shit. I would have pity for you. But you don't deserve it. My pity is better directed at Sméagol

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Anonymous 12h

Also don’t call people Uncle Tom wtf is that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

Because if I had a girl and she rejected me then of course I would cheat. But I can’t because I don’t have a girl and I’m ugly

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

And a real man doesn't cheat. Now silence quarterling.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 12h

The Bible says they need to submit so if you wanna argue against God then that’s on you. And I’m not horrible and evil I’m a loving guy and care and help for everybody

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 12h

That’s not what I said. Read the verse

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Anonymous replying to -> mryikyak 12h

The verse is very clear

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

Mate you said he should cheat on her if she doesn’t want to have birthday sex that’s the mentality of a rapist

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

Oh no! Someone quoting another part of the bible at you that doesn't fit your narrative!

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 12h

But I doubt you would even follow the last part of that verse

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 12h

But also not everyone’s a Christian

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

ur clearly insufferable and hateful.

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

Exodus 20:14 "You shall not commit adultery." That verse is very clear

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

1 Peter 3:7 "Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect..."

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 12h

But she didn’t reject you. Yall are dating and she just didn’t wanna have sex

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 11h

Anonymity reveals who you really are. Maybe women can see through the mask. I’ve seen a lot of your posts and comments. I’ve actually tried to be nice to you in the past because you seemed lost, but quite frankly you do not have a good personality. You are bitter, hateful, bigoted, insecure, an attention seeker, and narrow minded. You don’t deserve the effort, grace, or kindness people on here have extended to you, especially considering the hate you spew. You refuse to actually change.

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