Anonymous #1 5w

I’m just so confused bc we’ve been together 3 years and he’s been amazing. Like Ik he loves me but idk why he’d say that. He knows my self esteem is extremely low too

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Anonymous OP 5w

yeah ik how that feels but especially if he knows that he hurt your feelings and is still acting like that that's just really immature of him

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Anonymous #1 5w

i got up and went in another room bc I was hurt. he doesn’t understand why i think it was mean and is out in the other room playing on his phone. btw this happened abt 15 mins ago

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Anonymous OP 5w

okay i'm really sorry for you tho cause he's your partner and should respect your feelings it's pretty shitty from him to be that disrespectful and at this point it doesn't matter if it's supposed to be funny or anything but if it hurts your feelings he should seriously respect that and not be mad about it cause there is nothing for him to be mad about tbh

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Anonymous #2 5w

I think you should blow him up

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Anonymous #1 5w

like what do i even do. i’ve always been super sensitive and he just thinks i get too hurt over little things. but like bfs are supposed to build their gf up, and then he gets annoyed with my self esteem issues but it’s not like he’s helping by saying stuff like this

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Anonymous OP 5w

yes exactly guys are supposed to be there for their gf and if that man doesn't make you feel that way and is inconsiderate about your feelings then maybe he is not the right guy for you, seriously that sounds really immature of him and it's not normal and also please don't waist your time on him and think about if you can imagine being with him in the future...

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Anonymous #1 5w

i def will be

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Anonymous #2 5w

what lol

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Anonymous OP 5w

Your man is evil and you should have told him “well time for you to look for one of those better women” and dumped him on the spot

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Anonymous OP 5w

yeah please do cause i'm sure you'll find a guy out there who doesn't make you feel that way... i can only speak from my experience and i'm not into guys but if i say something "funny" or smth like that to my gf and she doesn't think it's funny or even worse if i hurt her feelings then it's not funny period. and i'm seriously question why he's getting mad when he hurt you like that's not how he should treat you...

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Anonymous #2 5w

literally what i'm trying to say in a gentle way😭😭

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Anonymous #1 5w

if only you could talk to him and give him some pointers on how a relationship is supposed to work 😂

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Anonymous OP 5w

yeah fr tho he needs someone to tell him that he should respect his partner

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Anonymous #1 5w

i also have bpd which causes me to be over sensitive and get hurt easier than a lot of people. and it just feels like he is thinking that’s the reason for everything i get hurt by. like saying “oh it’s not even that bad it’s just bc of her bpd she’s just sensitive cause of that”. even if anyone would be hurt by it

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Anonymous OP 5w

i'm genuinely sorry cause that's really not normal and he's just being an ass even if you're really sensitive and especially then, that doesn't give him the right to act like that like fr and btw what he said is really not okay and you're definitely not overreacting, maybe he's really not the guy for you pls think about that...

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Anonymous #1 5w

i definitely am after reading the comments

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Anonymous OP 5w

Well I do not have bpd and I can assure you you are being way calmer about this than u would be

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Anonymous #2 5w

Than I would be*

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Anonymous #3 5w

I strongly doubt he meant to insult you with what he said

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Anonymous #3 5w

i hope so but i just am confused

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Anonymous OP 4w

He doesn’t value your feelings enough

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