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i’m a woc of indian origin and mostly attracted to white guys. But i’ve noticed i’m not really a white guys ideal type. That kinda sucks cause i have a very narrow range of features i actually am attracted to. I often get called pretty tho. am i cooked
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Anonymous 5w

Maybe ask yourself why it is you developed such specific preferences. Also recognize that you are a women with a racial preference and accept that a lot of shitty men have racist preferences too

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Anonymous 5w

Jd Vance? Although I hear that’s not going so well these days 💀

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Anonymous 5w

Y’all have bad PR you’d be better off dating other men of color if you don’t like Indian men. Idk why but I get a lot of interest from south Asian women and I never expected it

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Anonymous 5w

No there’s a good bit of white men that are bound to like woc. Of course we have the short end of the stick being woc with non Eurocentric features but some do see the beauty in our unique traits that still make us beautiful

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Anonymous 5w

You’ll be fine

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Anonymous 5w

My Indian friend is dating a white guy!

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Anonymous 5w

same I’m not my types type

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Anonymous 5w

See I’m an Indian man myself and prefer white Women but I don’t constrict myself to just them. I’ll date whoever as long as me and her click

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Anonymous 5w

Wdym you’re not “a white guys ideal type?”

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

or maybe i don’t wanna have to force myself to date outside my type when i clearly don’t fit the racist rep the internet attributed to my ethnicity

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

You mean the type that if anything is going to be more likely to be racist and have racist family. And the type that was likely influenced by racist ideas you grew up with? 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 5w

I just think it’s a little hypocritical to be like “no white man wants me because of my race!” Meanwhile you strictly only like white men

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 5w

I don’t think it’s racist to have a preference

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 5w

Mmm it can be if you exclude races. Either bc if internalized racism or straight up racism of other ppl

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 5w

I meant racial*. But I think a lot of times those preferences are based in underlying racism, so

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

accusing me of internalized racism without knowing i’ve previously dated men of color (and had a great time) based on a post where i’m simply stating a preference is insane behavior . it’s practically impossible to control what and who you’re attracted to

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