Ask Women on Sidechat | 1:late april i began telling myself bf that i really wanted to go to hawaii. had everything laid out from the budget to activities. it was dream trip i wanted for us. early may he said “maybe we should go”, and broke up with me. but then we get together..

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Ask Women 22h

1:late april i began telling myself bf that i really wanted to go to hawaii. had everything laid out from the budget to activities. it was dream trip i wanted for us. early may he said “maybe we should go”, and broke up with me. but then we get together..

Anonymous 22h

Sorry I’m not a woman, but I can’t help but respond to this. Holy shit he’s so heartless, after how clear you made it that that trip was important to you, and him going now without you means he either doesn’t care enough to pay attention to the things you say matter to you, or he’s just really that oblivious, either way it’s inexcusable. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this, but personally I’d leave. Good luck either way tho

Anonymous 22h

Lmaao he’s playing in your face

Anonymous 22h

Maybe that’s why he got back w you to GET back at you

Anonymous 22h

Why is he bumming off other people getting multiple other people to pay

Anonymous 21h

ADHD is not an excuse to be an asshole. He knew you wanted to go and is now taking a trip without you. If he cared about you, he would bring you too or stand his ground about you coming with his friend at least a bit. It seems like he doesn’t care about you

Anonymous 22h

2: for the past 3 weeks, we’ve been doing really great. then just last night he tells me he’s going to hawaii with his childhood friend. this crushed me because he knew that i wanted us to go. have everything booked by the end of may. even offered to pay his share so we could at least book now. i don’t feel jealous, im happy he’s going, his friend is paying for everything. but i just can’t help but feel so crushed.

Anonymous 22h

(edit: part 1, i meant to say he said shouldn’t** go)

Anonymous 13h

what’s weird is that whenever i’ve traveled with my family, they always asked us if we wanted to bring our significant others. i soon learned that it’s just something my family does. i have a feeling he would never invite me.

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Anonymous 17h

“My in college boyfriend didn’t take me a trip to Hawaii so he’s the problem”. You’re a selfish fuck. Stop being controlling.

Anonymous

#2 22h

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#3 22h

it’s his childhood friend, their families are pretty close and i guess they view him a son going on a family trip.

Anonymous

#2 22h

i see that, he has adhd and has always told me it hard for him to pay attention. i’ve always been fine with it, but for this i don’t know it genuinely crushed me. i’ve cried more now than during our breakup. i just don’t know if it’s worthy enough to breakup with him because it’s like saying im jealous, i just don’t know what im feeling exactly.

Anonymous

#1 22h

And I’m not using lmao as in I’m laughing at you btw. I’m honestly just surprised a “bf” would do that 💀 I don’t even have enemies that are that evil

Anonymous

OP 21h

babe you’re not being heard. you can do better promise

Anonymous

OP 13h

i know, i can’t ask him to take me. he also went to nyc with his mom just a few weeks ago. he travels a lot because people pay for it.