
Write her a letter. Be polite and complimentary. Say you think it’s possible you copied her number wrong, and if that’s the case you’d love to see her again. Don’t go back to her house and creep her out though. In your envelope, include a stamp, an envelope, and your address. Be a gentleman.
Especially if that person is bigger and scarier than the person answering the door. Which is kinda the whole point of the big gay guy example. Idk why you’re mad about me not wanting people showing up at my house every time I try to avoid them hitting on me. It’s a totally reasonable boundary, and you’re welcome to set that boundary around YOUR house too.