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I had unprotected sex and now I’m really scared there’s a chance I might be pregnant even though he didn’t even finish and I just don’t know what I should do. I hate sex so much.
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Anonymous 2w

Pregnancy tests are often free depending on where u go

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Anonymous 2w

How long ago? If less than 24 hours take a plan b

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Anonymous 2w

Plan b

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Anonymous 2w

the other comments are true and reasonable but I want to address your anxiety here: if he didn't finish at any point, it is extraordinarily, astronomically unlikely that you could be pregnant. when people say pre can have sperm, that's only if there's already been a climax since the previous time the guy peed. you are fine.

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Anonymous 2w

You hate sex? Why are you having it? No judgment, I’ve been there and done that. Took me time to realize that I wasn’t doing it for me. It was something my partner wanted, but not something I wanted.

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Anonymous 2w

if you had sex without a condom and you’re not on any sort of contraceptive then your best bet would be Plan B and it is more effective the earlier you take it, it can mess up your period so even if it doesn’t come this month don’t freak out as it’s a high dose of levonorgestrel and I’ve taken an early enough then you should be fine and you normally get it a month later but if when your period is supposed to come and nothing happens and then you should seek a test

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Anonymous 2w

start taking 2,000mg vit c everyday it will end a possible pregnancy

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Anonymous 2w

no its risky but it will end the pregnancy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I think it’s too early to use one since this all happened today

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Also no judgment but never do that again. Did you even want your or was it his decision

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

I bought a plan b but I’m really scared to take it and it was originally my idea but I did get him to buy condoms tho he didn’t use them until I kinda forced him to

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Oh I didn’t know that, that feels actually really reassuring

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Yeah even pre-cum can risk pregnancy so you should rly just never ever go raw unless your on birth control, and if a man doesn’t wanna do condoms you don’t want the man. I had an accident earlier this year and had to do plan B and i was totally terrified to, but you will be ok! girls use it all the time, i didnt even have any minor side effects! but the sooner you take it the more likely it is to be effective. their is a weight limit for effectiveness though so make sure youre not above it or

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

On any meds that will interfere, then take it asap. Also for goodness sake get the guy to at least split the cost with you if you had to pay drugstore price

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Yeah I ended up paying 38 dollars for it but he said he’d pay for it since he feels bad making me feel this scared. Though he keeps telling me that I dont really need to take it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

He’s wrong, you absolutely should better safe than sorry. But yeah, let him pay, they guy should pretty much always pay in this situation unless the girl like pressured him to not use a condom

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Okay I think I’ll take the plan b then I just hope everything works out and I get my period cause I feel like an anxious mess waiting for it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Yeah, you’ll be ok!

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

That’s 2 grams. Is that healthy?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Ugh, men who don’t take pregnancy concerns seriously make my skin crawl. Get him a labor simulator and see if he still complains about wearing a fucking condom

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

are you trying to fuck up someone’s day? Or are you trying to give them a kidney stone? She needs help with knowing that she’s not pregnant and instead, you come up with this? If you have a medical degree, throw it out the window.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

and if the test comes up positive then you should go to a Planned Parenthood and they will terminate whatever is in there using medication

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

i will say what i said again, 2 grams of vitamin c is not healthy and do not do that unless you really wanna mess yourself up

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