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Do I dm the girl that is with my abusive ex that I’m trying to forget about or do I let it be
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Anonymous 3w

I’m a guy, but I’d say dm to at least warn her so that you’re doing what’s within your power to prevent someone from unknowingly getting into a situation where they are likely to be subjected to the same abuse as you were.

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Anonymous 3w

i’m sorry, who?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I just know he would gaslight her then hurt me more than he already has

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

There’s no way of winning

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

How would he hurt you now that he’s your ex? Are you safe?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

If there's concerns of your own safety then you should probably avoid doing that until you're in a safer space

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Trust no real safety concerns

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I mean like hurt as in hurt my mental stability lmao

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