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I need advice, my boyfriend said: “You can catch feelings for someone else and fall in love while in a relationship it’s fine and not cheating as long as you don’t act on it” Should I be worried about this? Or am I just being insecure?
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Anonymous 18h

small crushes are one thing but falling in love with someone else is not normal

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Anonymous 19h

yeah ask him why he said that lol

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Anonymous 19h

Lowkey suspicious as hell

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Anonymous 18h

He’s letting you know OP so later he says he told you. He’s hiding something toxic and wrong. This is a coded message. He needs to be clear what he wants but is ashamed to do that.

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Anonymous 18h

Fall in love? That just sounds crazy. Having a crush on someone else or thinking they are attractive is one thing but falling in love? That sounds bad

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Anonymous 16h
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