Guy and not an answer but I can’t decide what’s more alarming, the fact that you don’t consider “the basic cheating stuff” to be a relationship or dating problem that’s the cheater’s fault. Or that you’ve somehow never heard the insane stories every guy has about the girls who did him wrong (do you tune them out, are you in a social media bubble, or do you just not count the ones that involve her cheating? Bc that admittedly would be nearly all of them, but it’s rarely just that.)

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lots of women make those videos for another woman to warn them about a specific man or a specific type of man. there r several area specific facebook groups that ask the question "are we dating the same guy" and its women sharing stories and asking other women abt the guys they r talking too. as a woman it definitely depends on the woman and i would say 60% do it for the courtesy of warning but 40% do it for clout

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