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Does wearing revealing clothes make u more likely to get unwanted sexual attention?
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Anonymous 1w

Yes and no. I’ve worn dresses and got a lot of very negative attention but I’ve also worn leggings and a T-shirt and got negative attention. It’s happened more when wearing more “revealing clothes” but it still happens without it.

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Anonymous 1w

Yes, but that’s not anything we need to feel bad for. Our bodies are objectified no matter what we do. Even when we dress modestly, men still think we do it for their validation.

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Anonymous 1w

It shouldn’t, but men are gross and creepy and will sexualize you if you make it even slightly easier (and I’m saying this as a man too). Most men are just gross, particularly in our generation.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Why?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Why what?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Why do u think men are that way, particularly in our generation?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Honestly, men have always kind of been like that, but it’s way worse now. With porn normalized at a younger age and social media sexualizing everything, a lot of guys grow up seeing women almost entirely as objects. It’s disgusting, and honestly, it doesn’t look like it’s getting any better.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Can u change men’s nature? I think we are what we are too an extent

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

There is definitely some truth to human nature, but everything you are as a personal human being comes down to one thing which is memories. Everything that happened to you, particularly growing up, affects the person you are. Relive your life with different memories and you’re an entirely different person. Preventing this nature from taking over is all about how they’re raised, and most men are influenced by sexualized social media and porn unfortunately.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

women also have a ‘nature’. we feel attraction and desires. that’s what that excuse and all other excuses when it comes to sexuality and odd behavior always fails to leave out. and yet the problem is not as intense. it’s the socialization.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Well before I respond to that, what are you arguing for here, what claim are you trying to make about this?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Isn’t men’s attraction more visual than women’s tho? At least that’s what ya’ll say

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