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I still am having a hard time getting over my ex. We broke up almost 2 months ago, and were together for 6.5 years. My life feels crazy. We lived together, I’m blocked. I have one of our cats. Wtf, how do I do this?
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Anonymous 2w

it's only been 2 months, unfortunately it's going to take time. gotta focus on yourself and what makes you happy

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Anonymous 2w

Im also going through a breakup rn and I read somewhere that it takes roughly half the time you were together to get over someone. Also youre going through a major identity shift so mentally your mind doesnt know what to do. Easier said than done but be easy on yourself 💗

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Anonymous 2w

YOU SPLIT UP THE CATS?

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Anonymous 2w

I’m in the same predicament. Together 13 years , separated a little over a month ago. Still living together, we have pets, and 2 kids together. Supposed to be trying to move on but all I want is him. So right now it seems impossible

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Anonymous 2w

focus on yourself and your goals, it takes time but I promise you’ll be okay🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

We were together 6.5 years 😵‍💫

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

also it’s going to take like at least two years to you to be fully over it, relationships technically have like a 1/3 half life so about that time is when you’ll fully be healed

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Yes ): one was mine and one was his. They didn’t really get along anyways

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

That’s so long 😩

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

it happens it’s sad but that’s usually how psychology works, some people will tell you the fastest way to get over someone is by getting by under someone else and that works temporarily because it occupies the mind for the time being but later when you’re alone you’ll just feel empty again

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