antarticcat on Sidechat | Anybody else just feel like they just need to fill the void right away when a relationship ends like find a new guy ASAP. It’s just like this urge to feel the emptiness to not feel the pain? Recently, it’s new habit.

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Anybody else just feel like they just need to fill the void right away when a relationship ends like find a new guy ASAP. It’s just like this urge to feel the emptiness to not feel the pain? Recently, it’s new habit.

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Anonymous 6d

Not at all. I like being single. I would like being in a relationship but I don’t need one at all. If you feel like you do need one in order to be happy absolutely don’t get into one. Stay on your own.

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Anonymous 6d

nah i like being single for a few years after a relationship. it’s not healthy to feel like you NEED a relationship. if you’re desperate for one your standards aren’t going to be high enough. and if you can’t handle being single then you’re gonna stay too long in relationships that aren’t good for you. you should try to find peace being single. don’t try to fill the emptiness with another person. find fulfillment on your own

Anonymous 6d

No I feel content being single, especially since my previous partners were draining

Anonymous 6d

I’m the exact opposite. The thought of a new guy would send me into a sobbing fit then eventually just feel wrong and make me sad for way too long. Like an if I can’t have them I don’t want anyone mindset

Anonymous 6d

I felt like I needed someone to fill the void, but I never followed through with it because I know what I'm looking for at the time isn't a relationship but just a replacement which also lets me know i neeeed to focus on myself and regain my confidence in being alone and content once again

Anonymous 6d

I was single for a while, but now that I’ve gotten back into dating, it just feels like I need somebody to feel void. I did like when I was single though.

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antarticcat 6d

Thank y’all for the advice

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hellraiser 5d

side note hooking up with people as soon as you get out of a relationship is not finding peace being single and is definitely filling the emptiness with other people

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twirling_tornado 5d

I don’t consider myself part of hookup culture at least try not to be I am not built for it personally but I am trying to find a real relationship at the moment I just found another person I am very all g to we will see how it goes

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twirling_tornado 5d

ah i don’t see it that way. i see hookups as part of being single for me, and just a fun way to blow off steam and fulfill sexual fantasies. i didn’t hookup with people with romantic intent or as a way to feel better about a break up. the break ups i had where i hooked up with someone quickly didn’t have me feeling sad or empty. i was glad to be out of the relationships and wanted to fulfill my sexual desires again with someone new.

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antarticcat 5d

I do not want to be used for my body again though like the last person we literally were talking for a year and as soon as he got what he wanted he left we still somewhat contact each other though it was disappointing because it didn’t even give things a second try even though I explained to him my experience level is not as much as his but is said there was size incompatibility which is bs it’s just that it takes a while for me to warm up and low key nervous garentee it would’ve went a lot

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antarticcat 5d

Smoother if he gave it a second chance

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twirling_tornado 5d

i know you’re not familiar with sex at all so i don’t expect you to understand that for some people sex can just be for fun but id appreciate it if you could manage your judgements about my lifestyle and not jump to conclusions. i don’t judge your lifestyle, dont pretend you know anything about mine