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Why do you care if men are virgins?
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Anonymous 8w

Why does anyone care that anyone is a virgin? Find someone you like & tell them what you like. If they’re down, cool get to it! If they’re not, sucks, move on.

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Anonymous 8w

idgafffff virginity is a social construct that i wish we could all just move on from

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Anonymous 8w

i don’t at all. in fact my bf was one.

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Anonymous 8w

as a woman id prefer a guy who wasnt a virgin because im not a virgin. good sex is important to me & i feel like someone whos had sex has a higher chance of being good at it, compared to someone who has never had sex. i do not want to be a teacher or sex instructor💀

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Anonymous 8w

It’s a valid question

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Anonymous 8w

Not at all! Im one we could learn together 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

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Anonymous 8w

I don’t 😘

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Anonymous 8w

I’ve been told I give off the hardest virgin vibes of anyone on the planet

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Anonymous 8w

bc i’m a virgin and i know how hard it is to be one if ur hot so a hot straight male virgin is very hard to find and very attractive and very self-disciplined

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

Why?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Why are guys holding out more then women have been

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

Holding out on what?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Until marriage

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

Now I know you’re lying unless you only talk to people at church/

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

I go to church once a week so that’s where most of my friends are

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

no one is acc waiting for marriage that’s dumb 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

It is not that easy people have sex hang ups… you gotta go on a whole bunch of dates and all that…. But yes you shouldn’t care if someone’s a virgin at all.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 8w

Now hold on I don’t really like that part. Valuing good sex I understand. But you’re already going to have to guide somebody into understanding where your pleasure is … im not sure if there’s much of a difference between a virgin and a non-virgin with that.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

i hear you. you have to learn your partner individually, but there DEFINITELY is a difference... and i do not want to start from square 1 with a virgin :/ i wish them the best tho❤️ all love lol its just not for me

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8w

I am

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 8w

So am I

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 8w

Men don’t come out the womb knowing how to fuck well…even if they’ve fucked before

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

i never said they did...? i just would rather not be with someone who lacks experience. thats my personal preference bro

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Anonymous 8w

Don’t play with me

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Anonymous 8w

Ew

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 8w

Its noe disgusting. Some men like to feel wanted by women

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

“corrupting” is the disgusting part

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

… “find someone you like and tell them what you like” encompasses any type of engagement between bar/club meetup and a super slow growth friends to lovers.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

*between and including.

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Anonymous 8w

Bs im a man and i wish i could get laid rn

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Anonymous 8w

holy stereotypes

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

ew weird

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