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Hey girls, I have a first date today and I REALLY like her, is it too much to bring her flowers? I dont want her to feel like im coming on too strong or anything
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Anonymous 4w

absolutely not. my bf bought me flowers on our first OFFICIAL date, asked me out that night, and bought flowers for me and my mom the next day. it’s genuine thought behind getting flowers that makes it sweet, and if it’s her fav flowers it’s always a plus

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Anonymous 4w

Thanks for the help, bought 3 and combined them into 1!! Have a stem to keep for myself so ik when they die Now just have to get over the pre date jitters 😭

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Anonymous 4w

It’s super sweet, i recommend getting a little vase with them just in case she doesn’t own one

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Anonymous 4w

if she doesn’t like them she doesn’t deserve you king

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Anonymous 3w

Very cute! Love it! - woman here who would absolutely appreciate first date flowers. I think it shows intention.

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Anonymous 3w

Update for you all (idk how invested you guys are but I wanted to at least tell someone) The date went amazing and she loveddd the flowers!!! Thank all you guys so much for your help 🙏

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Ok so ive know her for like 2 weeks and we spontaneously did something last week and weve obviously been texting a bunch but this is our first real real date. I stupidly haven’t asked what her fav kinds of flowers are… Do you have any recommendations? Ik her fav color is purple so was gonna at least start there

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 4w

yes! at home has some really cute ones

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Purple with white accents would be really pretty, like delphinium, hyacinth, aster, or bellflowers for the purple and baby’s breath for the little bit of white! Maybe try a Trader Joe’s?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

But you could go to a store that has premade bouquets like at Walmart of something too!

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 4w

trader Joe flowers last ever!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

That’s so cute!!!! Amazing

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