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recoveringincel

The difference between me and your ex is that he was more attractive than me
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Anonymous 1d

My ex wasn’t harassing women online

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Anonymous 1d

My ex supported women, fought for the rights of others, was extremely charismatic, and wouldn’t have made the posts you made. Yah he has his issues but he isn’t like you. Also he was 5’8” and hot as hell. My bf is better than both of you tho.

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Anonymous 1d

discord mod ass statement 😭 also this post makes one automatically less attractive :)

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Anonymous 1d

my ex also had a lot of friends who were women who he never sexualized. incredibly intelligent and knowledgeable about politics and history. went out of his way to make other people feel happy and safe

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Anonymous 1d

My ex was attractive bc he didn’t harass women online and wasn’t a misogynistic bum. He actually respected women as much as I don’t like the guy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

U wouldn’t know I’m harassing women online unless you saw a pic of me I posted on YikYak

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

That doesn’t make it better

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

It’s not a value statement, it’s a fact. You would have no way of knowing I’m cool_intellectual

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

You literally have posted yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Ok..but if u hadn’t seen me on here

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

The fact they wouldn’t know wouldn’t make it ok or better, besides your demeanor definitely rubs off in person

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Have u met me? No. U have no idea what I’m like irl. Nobody Ik irl has any idea I post like this on here

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

It you’ve seen what I look like, u can tell me whether I’m more or less physically attractive than ur ex

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

I don’t give a fuck about attractiveness if you’re an asshole which you have proven to be

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

If it didn’t rub off you’d have a gf

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Women who know me feel neutral towards me or have liked me as a friend, not negative

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Such a convenient explanation for you. You think it’s a simple as being kind when I have always been kind to the ppl I am in classes with or work with

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

Are you doing it because you want others to like you or truly out of your own volition

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Because it’s just what you do. Why be rude?

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

Then why throw fits on the internet? If you supposedly ruin our perception of you how are we supposed to answer properly? If you lie to us we will only know the lie. You paint yourself to be a horrible person

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I’m asking u to answer purely on looks! How hard is it, for God’s sake

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

I’m telling you I don’t care about looks. Why are you not getting? I’ve dated people who are apparently conventionally “not attractive” but they’re attractive to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

I’m not charismatic. I think I have anti-charisma. I’ve been described as boring. He probably was more physically attractive than me tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

I am literally a progressive, so I vote for the rights of others

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

I will be doing a History PhD. Sounds like he’s more outgoing than me and has more friends than me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Whatever. Idk what to think anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

It’s cuz I’m probably autistic

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

That’s not an excuse to be a dick. My boyfriend is autistic and I adore him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Was he a social outcast when he was younger?

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

Yes

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Do u feel bad for him?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

respect for women is the most important thing. that’s why this post is ironic- bc this creep is clearly a self absorbed (and slightly deluded) harasser 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Ya’ll didn’t fuck with me even before I was an incel

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

You were a “nice guy” then, this isn’t a hate thing but women can tell. We know and recognize the behavior because we’ve seen it thousands of times.

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

i’m glad no one fw u then if this is the shit u do. mad weird for openly portraying yourself as someone who harasses women on an anonymous app

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

I don’t know how you would tell if I virtually didn’t talk to women for the first 21 years of my life

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Not counting family, teachers, a couple friends

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

it’s obvious you have little to no romantic experience with women if you have to post things like this for self validation

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

so family, faculty, and like two extras. okay got it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

No shit. I’m a KHHV. U trying to fucking kick me while I’m down?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Be glad ur not in my shoes

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

yes tryna kick some sense into you

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

oh trust me i am very glad

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I h8 u so much

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

okay? a creep hates me how sad i guess 😭 also who the hell says “h8” rn

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

Can you go tell it to someone who cares we aren’t here to baby a grown ass man and make him feel better. Men are doing better than you in life bc they’re respectful to random ppl and not the ppl that they’re expected to respect

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

RIGHT i’m js over here laughing at this bc why does he think that cancels out the intention of the post

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Fuck u

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

I respect ppl who respect me

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

calm down lil guy no need to get emotional 😂 that time of the month?

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

Respect should be given no matter who it is not just the ppl you interact with on a daily basis. I don’t disrespect ppl just bc I don’t know them

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Wait can I see the pic? I missed it

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

Most women I don’t know I simply ignore irl

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

what’s a KHHV

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

and you wonder why you’re a “khhv” or whatever you called it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Wdym?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

DEADASS HAD TO LOOK IT UP it’s some chronically online abbreviation for “Kissless, Hugless, Handholdless Virgin”

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

most women you don’t know you ignore

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Yes. And?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Now that you list it out, I think I’ve heard it literally one time before in my life 😭 I knew it sounded familiar, but I had no clue what it could possibly be

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

I just learned it myself in the last year. See, I wasn’t even in incel spaces till since I’ve been on YikYak

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

Holy hypocrisy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Dude is actually a loser to self proclaim that like it’s some badge

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

I highly recommend staying away from online incel spaces. They lead to dark places man

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

Nobody else understands what it’s like and how I feel

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

Other incels don’t either. It’s all just a self gratification competition, not genuine support. Literally worse than talking to AI about your problems, and that’s already pretty harmful on its own

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

No, they do. U don’t. None of u do. U wouldn’t last a day in our shoes

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

Also if we’re gonna go into how those spaces are harmful, it’s because they’re not even made to be incel support groups. They’re typically moderated by people who aren’t incels who use the spaces to laugh at them and try to manipulate them into becoming more extreme, committing crimes, or killing themselves

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

U still didn’t explain what you’re saying abt me ignoring most women I don’t know

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

No, they don’t. It’s been exposed many times that the owners of the spaces made them to mock incels and do what I just said

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

Why do ppl do that? Also, women mock incels all the time

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

To get a sick sense of fun out of it by abusing vulnerable people at their worst. Also yeah, literally every one does, not just women. The moderators of those spaces don’t just mock you though. They use you

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

Being an incel should be more accepted

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

Your thoughts and beliefs even now probably aren’t your own. I see that you’ve also said “I don’t know how I got this way.” You’re unironically probably not even wrong about it partially not being your fault. Someone probably identified you as easily to manipulate and radicalized you

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

Nah

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

I’m not even radical. Tell me a single belief I have that’s radical

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

Incels should realize that life isn’t about sex and stop caring about being a virgin. Who gaf if you’re a virgin bruh why is that worthy of basing your whole personality and identity around?

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

That being an incel should be accepted

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

Tbf this applies to society as a whole. Not everything is about sex lol

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

This is radical too

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

It’s easy for someone who gets sex to say that it doesn’t matter. Many of u are coming from abundance while I am coming from nothing

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

Dude I’m literally a virgin too 🫩🥀

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

M or F?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

I simply just don’t gaf because it genuinely could not matter less to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

How old?

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

Dawg I’m a guy and I’m 21

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

And if you’re curious, it’s been 3 years since I dated anyone. Haven’t dated anyone in college yet. I don’t hate women tho and women don’t hate me bruh it’s not that hard to just be chill

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

I’m older than by four years. I’m in grad school. It’s not ok

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

*u

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

It’s not even like I’m not into nerdy interests either. I play league of legends with my friends, I like anime and so most of my friends, I literally study jrock in order to be able to make better music, I enjoy writing lore and music for a story I’m working on, and I used to be an engineering major and led a team in a nasa competition while I still was. You can be a nerd and still have friends man, both guys and girls

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

Don’t u wonder why no one will date u?

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

Dude I still wouldn’t care if I was still a virgin at 25

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

Do u care if u die a virgin?

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

No, and I turned someone down. I haven’t met anyone I’ve liked enough to date

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

Not particularly? It would be nice to have kids and a family one day but there’s a lot of other things in life that are way higher up on my list than just losing virginity lol

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

Life isn’t about dating and getting your dick wet bc no one will fuck a disrespectful man like yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

I could be respectful but it wouldn’t matter

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

It wouldn’t matter because you already think this way.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

Again, easy for u to say when u have dated and had sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

If you’re having to put on a front, it’s very obvious. There’s a big difference between being tolerant of someone and being respectful towards them. It seems like you’re just tolerant of women

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

Oops wrong screenshot, but it still applies to this one too

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

This is the one I meant to send. My b

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

I didn’t always think this way. It’s fairly recent actually. But it didn’t matter that I didn’t

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

Why even bother thinking that way though? There’s genuinely no point

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

Bc I don’t know what else to think anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

Then like I was saying earlier, it’s probably not even your own thoughts. You probably just absorb what these incel spaces tell you and regurgitate it without giving it any thought

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

why are you obsessed with sex holy shit that’s not normal 😭 and harassing women on the internet is disgusting. get help, learn to respect women, and then MAYBE (highly unlikely but maybe) a woman will find you maybe like 10% attractive

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

this dude’s actually insane for saying this shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I’m pretty sure there are women that already do find me attractive. I’ve had at least a couple girls express interest in me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

My anger towards attractive women is from rejection, real or percieved

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I wish I didn’t care abt it. Idk how I will go my whole life w/o a relationship and/or sex tho

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

Womp womp

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

Smthg u and the avg woman will never experience except by choice

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

That’s a very inaccurate statement for a man pursuing a PhD

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

More Gen Z women are dating and less want to date in the first place. They are few women who want to date and are single

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

There

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

I know plenty whom are but they interact with men like you so ofc they’d rather be single then date degenerates like yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

yeah idk how either if you keep acting like this. maybe stop being immature first and then follow that up with turning off your phone and going outside (irl)

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

Like they’re even aware of our existence aside from contexts such as this

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

Why fear a rejection that hasn’t happened yet? You’ll never know until you take the first step and try. Even if you do get rejected, that’s ok. It’s incredibly hard for anyone to bat 1.000. By just trying, even once, you’ve already made more progress than most incels will. The whole thing about incels is that it’s “involuntary”, so if you at least try, then that shows you actually do have power over your situation in your life. You’ve just gotta take the first step

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

Cuz I’ve been rejected by own friends. I’ve been rejected by the ppl who ignore my existence. I t’s all I I know

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

LOL i wonder why they reject you 😂 maybe - just maybe - it’s because of the way you act. i mean i would ignore a sexist creep too who harasses women online for fun. it’s no one’s fault but your own for people not liking someone with no respect for others, so maybe work on yourself first. i’m not even kidding

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Why do u take pleasure in my suffering?

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 1d

i’m just being honest. you wondered why ppl don’t like you and i told you it’s bc of how you treat others. the whole point is that once you learn to respect women, and realize you’re not better than anyone else, then maybe people will like you. stop harassing women online and then proceeding to act confused as to why you’re an HIV or whatever you called yourself earlier

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

and as someone who’s had to deal with MANY men like you, it’s uncomfortable and disgusting. just because you’re anonymous does not mean you get to completely disrespect people. you probably wouldn’t treat your mom this way because of respect, and if you would then that’s a whole other issue.

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