
recoveringincel
The difference between me and your ex is that he was more attractive than meAlso if we’re gonna go into how those spaces are harmful, it’s because they’re not even made to be incel support groups. They’re typically moderated by people who aren’t incels who use the spaces to laugh at them and try to manipulate them into becoming more extreme, committing crimes, or killing themselves
Your thoughts and beliefs even now probably aren’t your own. I see that you’ve also said “I don’t know how I got this way.” You’re unironically probably not even wrong about it partially not being your fault. Someone probably identified you as easily to manipulate and radicalized you
It’s not even like I’m not into nerdy interests either. I play league of legends with my friends, I like anime and so most of my friends, I literally study jrock in order to be able to make better music, I enjoy writing lore and music for a story I’m working on, and I used to be an engineering major and led a team in a nasa competition while I still was. You can be a nerd and still have friends man, both guys and girls
Why fear a rejection that hasn’t happened yet? You’ll never know until you take the first step and try. Even if you do get rejected, that’s ok. It’s incredibly hard for anyone to bat 1.000. By just trying, even once, you’ve already made more progress than most incels will. The whole thing about incels is that it’s “involuntary”, so if you at least try, then that shows you actually do have power over your situation in your life. You’ve just gotta take the first step
LOL i wonder why they reject you 😂 maybe - just maybe - it’s because of the way you act. i mean i would ignore a sexist creep too who harasses women online for fun. it’s no one’s fault but your own for people not liking someone with no respect for others, so maybe work on yourself first. i’m not even kidding
i’m just being honest. you wondered why ppl don’t like you and i told you it’s bc of how you treat others. the whole point is that once you learn to respect women, and realize you’re not better than anyone else, then maybe people will like you. stop harassing women online and then proceeding to act confused as to why you’re an HIV or whatever you called yourself earlier
and as someone who’s had to deal with MANY men like you, it’s uncomfortable and disgusting. just because you’re anonymous does not mean you get to completely disrespect people. you probably wouldn’t treat your mom this way because of respect, and if you would then that’s a whole other issue.