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When a man says he doesn’t wanna call or ft bc he has “anxiety “ should I take that seriously or is it a new excuse for men now ?
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Anonymous 3d

Some men just don’t like to talk on the phone. For me, I’d much rather text or see a woman in person. Don’t press the issue and give him time

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Anonymous 3d

Some people just hate calling and FaceTiming. I’m one of those people. I honestly only enjoy calling my mom, I don’t even call my fiancé unless it’s an emergency or easier than texting

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Anonymous 4d

Has he described his level of anxiety or just said it’s anxiety

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Anonymous 3d

Will do

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Anonymous 3d

Idk maybe I’m doin too much

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Anonymous 3d

It’s real for me I get scared doing it the first time

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

Like I asked him why he doesn’t wanna FaceTime or call and I would bring up that he’s avoiding the conversation, but then he says he has anxiety and he’s nervous

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Do you know what his face looks like?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

No😭😭 I met him on here and he says he’s not a big FaceTimer… but he’s very attentive to me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Did you want to be friends or date?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Date , but we’re having genuine conversations… nothing sexual, we both agreed and he respects it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

tell him if he can’t at least call and talk verbally you don’t see it progressing

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

True true bc we’ve only been talking for 4 days 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

They’ve only been talking for four days. Calm down. Op, please don’t listen to this person

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

💀 acting like I’m giving life or death advice relax

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

You’re the one that need to relax. That’s you’re single now

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

What’s the point in talking if they aren’t attracted to each other? It would be different if they just wanted to be friends

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