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My bf admitted to going to a strip club a few days ago and not telling me about it. He said he went in, talked to one of the strippers (mundane convo) and left after 10 min. I don’t think he cheated. I just don’t know how to feel.
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Anonymous 7w

There is no fucking way, OP someone just came into my DMs pretending to be you

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Anonymous 7w

girl.

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Anonymous 7w

“Guess you didn’t cheat but you’re still a traitor” - Olivia Rodrigo

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Anonymous 7w

My ex went to one and I broke up with him immediately

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

I knowwwww. We’ve been dating for a while and this is just so out of character for him. I thought he was pranking me when he told me.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

I think the main thing is why was he there to begin with

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

That’s my question too. He said it was a more run down weird place and it was morbid curiosity. Idk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

I guess this kind of brings up another question what’s the difference between that and watching something online and is watching something online cheating

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

He said there wasn’t anyone dancing. I personally don’t find watching something online cheating, but he does

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Has he been to one before that moment?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

this is the most blatant lie of all time lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

His story matches up, I called him so soon after this happened that he only had 30min to be in there, leave and get home. And from where he was he had a 20ish min drive home

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Yeah years ago when he turned 18

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

why would someone walk into a strip club to talk to the strippers. like.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

That’s so weird 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Ikr😭 we had a full on conversation about what you were saying then he was like yeah I’m upset but girl do you have a high sex drive because I do and I was like umm

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

I’m so sorry that happened to you. Men are WEIRD

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

yep, same

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

I don’t think that’s why he went in there, I think he ended up changing his mind

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