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Why do men think it’s hard to get a woman? Go up to her. Don’t be cocky. Get to know her. Make her feel at ease. Politely give her your number. If she senses you’re a good boy she’ll reach out.
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Anonymous 2w

What if she says “we should hang out sometime” but every time you offer she says she’s busy and also it’s hard to start a conversation about anything cause it’s hard to find stuff in common 😭

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Anonymous 2w

literally just make them feel safe it’s not hard - coming from someone who isn’t a woman

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Anonymous 2w

Be so fr

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Anonymous 2w

But I’m too scared, what if she rejects me, what if she has a bf, what if she’s rude but looks kind

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Anonymous 2w

Doesn’t work if you’re ugly. It’s impossible to get a woman

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

If you can’t find stuff in common and she don’t reply find another there’s plenty of girls out there - sincerely a woman

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

If she rejects or has a bf then move on don’t waste your time on someone who won’t give you theirs and if you have an issue with her “looking rude” but think she’s kind then find out - sincerely a woman

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Yea you’re right, I think my issue though is that I attract a lot of like book girls and I’m not really a book person idk what that’s about

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Hm why not try looking for someone with your same interests you don’t HAVE to be with the women that are already attracted to you. I would personally just start talking to more women and narrow it down to the ones you have things in common with like process of elimination!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Hmm good idea, I think I need to get more girly hobbies though cause most of my stuff is male oriented (video games, motorcycling, dancing) are mostly guy things I think. The dancing is probably the most feminine thing, but it’s at a school club and I already know everyone there. I like to go to the club to dance lol and just be hype with others but uhh idk what they’d think of that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

I’m gonna say this once nothing is a boy girl thing to do so please get that idea out of your head. I’m a woman and I love hunting, fishing, boating AND doing my hair n gossiping with my girls or getting dressed up but will always come back to more outdoorsy things because that just what I like. Please get rid of this “boys do this girls do that” propaganda

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

This is so dumb lol, i mean yes they should feel safe but that has nothing to do with whether or not they’re attracted to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

this mindset is probably why women don’t like you

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

What mindset are you even talking about 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

“making a woman feel safe has nothing to do with her attraction to you” 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

Yeah lol, like her dad probably makes her safe and she doesn’t wanna fuck him, most friends will make her feel safe and same

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

Like shes not gonna be attracted if she doesn’t feel safe true, but that’s far far far from sufficient

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

wait until you find out attraction is multifaceted

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

I think you already realized you made no sense and are just arguing bc you’re bored, bye

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

do you genuinely think that the average woman feels safe enough around someone she just met? you have to have signals that show you’re a safe person. if you can’t understand that then you’ll continue to fail to get a date lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

Go take an iq test and a reading comprehension test before you talk to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

yeah this is why I didn’t take you seriously, little man. if it’s any consolation, I feel bad for you and hope you grow as a person ♥️

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Oh no I know, I wouldn’t want to bar one person from doing any hobby they want. I’m just saying there’s certain hobbies that tend to be dominated by one gender so it can be harder to find someone of the opposite gender in those hobbies that’s dominated by the other.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Which makes it harder to talk to them simply cause they aren’t there

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 2w

Look at how many people on my some hundred lb life have significant others and then get back to us. (Not saying fat is inherently ugly its just something I don’t find attractive) -sincerely a women

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Wait but, this post was telling boys that they should be the one to reach out? *Feminism*

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

I hope you shrink as a person, heffer

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Cuck of the year

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 1w

this is a week-old post… get a job

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