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Does a man have to pay for everything?
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Anonymous 2w

People should be in whatever relationship works for both of them, not all relationships have to be the same

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Anonymous 2w

No

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Anonymous 2w

Not everything fs. It’s definitely special for him to pay for stuff but since we are both in college we split the more expensive things and I randomly will buy us Starbucks and stuff bc I’m usually the one craving it. However in my situation I’m personally paying for school while his parents are so I do kind of in a way expect him to pay for more bc I’m the stereotypical broke college student but every dynamic is and should be different

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Anonymous 2w

If a woman wants a man to fall into traditional gender roles then it would only be fair if she also abides by traditional gender roles. If she’s asking for equality between male and female then that should extend across all aspects of the relationship.

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Anonymous 2w

No, but that also will depend on your relationship dynamic and what you agreed on. Ofc if you talked about it and you’re a traditional person in a traditional relationship, they’ll likely say yes. If not then you won’t really have to. It’s whatever you agree on paying. I can buy my own things and we split the important stuff

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Anonymous 2w

i think a man pays for everything if he had a wife and children because he is providing for his household now if we are on a 1st date yes a man should pay, if we dating it’s honestly up to how the relationship dynamic is

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Anonymous 2w

not everything but majority of

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I don’t necessarily like that lifestyle because of my independent mom who makes her own income and pays for her own things

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