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My bf has said he’s done fked up things in the past but refused to ever elaborate I’ve been contacted by 3 separate women throughout our relationship recounting terrible stories of him. Am I justified in leaving? I find it hard to trust him fully
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Anonymous 4w

Yes, he’s not giving you reason to trust him

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Anonymous 4w

He should just be honest about what those “terrible” things are so that he can give you a peace of mind. People are allowed to mess up, and you’re also valid to feel concern and ask for peace through explanation. If he doesn’t want to talk about it, he isn’t taking your desire to build a foundation of trust as serious.

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Anonymous 4w

He’s not giving u the chance to choose if what he did is something you can look past it is fully justified to leave because of that alone AND THEN to have 3 different women going out of their way to warn u I would say leave him

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Anonymous 4w

Leave him. He won’t get better

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Anonymous 4w

holy shit yes

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Anonymous 4w

Is he supposed to not be allowed to move on and change?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Yes some people are allowed second chances but it clearly shows that he not only did something wrong once, not twice, but three whole times. He clearly doesn’t care if he’s okay with continuing his bad behavior. He is past second chances

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

You are assuming that not to mention is he supposed to just be on a ban list now forever lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Yeah sure why not

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