Anonymous #6 1d

But did he throw a brick at her?😭

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Anonymous #5 1d

could’ve hit her cervix or something, i’ve heard that feels like a brick, makes her puke i’ve heard so maybe like you don’t know the situation like still no way for him to react to her crying

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Anonymous #6 1d

Yeah no absolutely, he’s in the wrong no doubt for reacting so harshly But we have to try and resolve things She could have explained to him why she was crying but it sounds like she didn’t, even in her post she didn’t explain why she was crying?

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Anonymous #5 1d

i mean maybe it was a weird rush of emotions and she didn’t know either? we also don’t know how long she was crying before he reacted like that. and tbh it doesn’t matter why she was crying, any romantic or sexual partner reacting that way to u being upset is a HUGE red flag

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Anonymous #5 1d

what if it was a traumatic memory? don’t tell me that if you had a memory of some trauma that you would just outright spit it out because I know for a fact you would not

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Anonymous #3 1d

yeah, anyone reacting to you like that just wants you for the body and not anything else, it’s like those people expect you to not have any emotions

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Anonymous #6 1d

Now we’re playing what ifs Bro I already said the boyfriend is in the wrong 100% But now what? Where do we go from there is the question? If its a breakup then they should break up But if its not a breakup then they need to have a conversation about 1. His reaction OBVIOUSLY but also 2. Why she was crying so he knows what to do or how to prevent it next time.

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Anonymous #5 1d

maybe she was crying about the face he was making, which then the crying lead to the outburst, you ever think that the way that someone looks after something doesn’t affect them?

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Anonymous #6 1d

My question still stands What does the couple do now?

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Anonymous #5 1d

sorry, i should have clarified. i was very depressed and insecure at the time, and felt ashamed of my body

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Anonymous OP 1d

(the result of sh scars) he knows this too.

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Anonymous #5 1d

ur jumping ahead and not answering ops question. she’s just asking if she’s being unreasonable for thinking that’s a really insensitive way for her partner to treat her, we’re saying she’s not being unreasonable. ur jumping in and being like “okay op but what did u do to immediately resolve the situation” like bro she was crying??? and then got treated like that????? we’re not at solutions yet we’re at the determining if there is an issue stage

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Anonymous OP 1d

I’m so so sorry about that my love. Since it’s already happened you have to decide if you’re gonna end it with him or have a conversation about his reaction and why you were crying

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Anonymous OP 1d

oh hell no that’s a major dick move of him. i’m sorry he treated u that way that is not a sign of a loving and considerate partner

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Anonymous #5 1d

no worries, i appreciate all the replies and help from this post! y’all have been super supportive about making me feel not crazy . but yes i will definitely be having a conversation with my bf

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Anonymous OP 1d

Of coursee, girl you’re not crazy at all. And we don’t know the nature of your relationship but my advice is if this is his first “mess up” and you guys have been together for a while, then an open conversation won’t hurt. But if he often reacts like this to things even outside of sex, then definitely reevaluate the relationship.

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Anonymous OP 1d

i’m sorry to say this but i think i still think you should throw a brick at him, it’s something he knows about and THIS IS HOW HE REACTS?? nah fuck that, i’ll be the brick supplier if i have to, a brick a day keeps the tears at bay

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