lending you the strength. it helps to break the plan into little tiny steps. "today I'm going to pack up all my things in the bathroom," "today I'll pack up all my shoes." one thing at a time makes it all seem less daunting.

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You gotta leave. This is abuse.

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You need to leave you’ll be happy afterwards I promise this will feel like a relief not a loss

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Leave him, don’t think just do it and get somewhere far we’re you can feel it later

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Genuinely what do I do? It hurts to leave but it hurts to stay. I feel so stupid

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If you can, you should leave bro

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KILL HIM

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I broke up with my ex over text. We’d been dating for several months. I no longer felt safe, so I just went and did it the moment I felt like I could. Sure it wasn’t the perfect way to do that. I had to do it any way I could and get the hell out of there. For me, my life immediately got better. I didn’t even miss him because finally I could sit alone in a room without anyone touching me. It’s so peaceful being single.

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You need the strengthen yourself

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Start writing a note of all the times he has done something, specifically what his actions made you feel (small, unimportant, etc)

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You’re not stupid at all. It can be very difficult to leave someone especially when you love them, but at some point you have to question how much do you love yourself. If you love this person more than you then sure, stay, and suffer for this person. But if you love yourself more, and you should, then you deserve to be treated as such.

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I do these things with my partners!!! Except for the sex thing that’s pretty fucking bad

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