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Thoughts on bf talking (snapping or texting) to girls that liked him or he liked before or maybe like him still?
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Anonymous 4w

hard no

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Anonymous 4w

absolutely not. maybe it works for some people but it’s a big no for me and my boyfriend. in a past relationship, i let it slide.. i ended up getting cheated on prob with hundreds of girls. i looked into the girl friends he was snapping and they had nudes saved in the chat from before we started dating. his girl friend even tried to convince me nothing was going on while helping him cheat

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Anonymous 4w

if he liked them or they liked him in the past that’s even more of a no to me honestly. if they’re friends and it’s just that for sure, then maybe it’d be okay. bc if y’all break up, who do u think he’s running to first and who do u think has been waiting this whole time!!

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Anonymous 4w

if they’re genuinely good friends, then let them be friends. if he doesn’t ever mention them and you know they’re not friends, you deserve better.

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Anonymous 4w

Are the photos he’s liking particularly sexy or just regular stuff? That would make a difference for me. Friends vs. flirting.

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Anonymous 4w

But he says they’re just friends now

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Anonymous replying to -> twirling_tornado 4w

he says it shouldn’t matter bc he doesn’t like them. he’s done this like 3-4 times to me now.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

this man just doesn’t respect you. i asked my bf a few weeks in to unfollow/remove all the girls he ever went on a date with in the past and he did it immediately

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Anonymous replying to -> twirling_tornado 4w

omg my bf literally argued w me about this and said im immature. I wanted him to STOP liking this one girls photo that he liked for a super long time but he wouldn’t even do that instead he would wait weeks to like her photo so I wouldn’t see it..

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Have you explained why it hurts?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

yes. he says it immature and like a high school thing so I shouldn’t even care bc it’s just a photo

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Anonymous replying to -> period 4w

idk if they’re genuinely good friends tho. they have a selfie or two saved in their Snapchat’s which i find odd. he has only mentioned one to me and he said they liked eachother in college. idk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

the one about the photos, he said he has liked for a really long time apparently but now they’re just friends.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I’d create distance for his unwilling to see your side or hold space for your emotions. It’s coming off very defensive which isn’t the right attitude to have when your partner opens up about something

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

imo if he doesn’t mention them like he does one of his best friends then it’s not worth

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

He’s hardcore gaslighting you. Dump that hoe. He’s a pos with no maturity and no respect. He’s a boy🤮🤮🤮

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