The biggest curve ball is that one can have admiration which has a role and can exist. It has a lot of parallels to actual interest but will not pick a person they admire. An admirer can flirt because they appreciate you and are inspired by you that you bring them happiness how you are and how you treat them. To me this is the biggest thing to eye for to know if it’s admiration. What is beautiful is letting them choose and fly freely to where the bird flies back and lands on your hand choosing u

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