
I’ll be real, as a woman, I do not want men to approach me 1) at work, 2) during classes, or 3) during anything I am obligated to be at. At a party, sure, if they’re respectful. If I’m out with friends, maybe? I’m not gonna be interested in a guy who comes up to me in public and immediately starts flirting or hitting on me when he doesn’t even know me. I’m gonna think that’s weird. If someone is casual about it and introduced themselves as a person and not a potential whatever, that’s better
i think you guys just have to think about it from the perspective of when would it be weird to approach another guy and try to be friends. like do you normally stop other men who are walking alone and ask them stuff? no. but is it totally normal to introduce yourself and chat to other guys you meet at partys or the bars? yes! use the same logic when approaching women and you’ll be fine