Doesnt have to be a red flag to be a dealbreaker (if it is)

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Have you told him the way he’s comforting you isn’t helpful in the way you need?

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depends how much it impacts your life

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Not necessarily a red flag in terms of his character, but it could make it difficult in the future if you guys also lack communication skills. My own fiance still struggles to comfort me but he’s gotten much better at it. That’s only bc I’ve learned to reflect on & communicate my needs simply & directly.

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Ima dude but us dudes are great at solving problems. But that’s not always what you girls want. Sometimes you just want someone to hear you out. If he cares about you, he likely doesn’t know this is a problem. Make it known to him so he can try to figure out a solution.

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