Ask Women on Sidechat | To be clear I am against this guy pressuring her for an abortion, it’s her choice. But Why are we telling this guy “you chose to have sex deal with the consequences” isn’t that exactly what people say to us about abortion. Or is this sub anti abortion?

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Ask Women 2w

To be clear I am against this guy pressuring her for an abortion, it’s her choice. But Why are we telling this guy “you chose to have sex deal with the consequences” isn’t that exactly what people say to us about abortion. Or is this sub anti abortion?

Ask Women 2w

How do I convince a girl to have an abortion? She’s pregnant and I don’t want her to have a kid with me, I need serious answers please please please

Anonymous 2w

Abortion is a way of dealing with the consequences

Anonymous 2w

My problem is how he is reacting. He said he hopes she has a miscarriage. That's insane. Also he is trying to convince her. If she has one, that's fine, but that's her decision. We don’t know if she wants to keep this baby or not, or maybe go through the pregnancy and then put the kid up for adoption. We don’t know the full story

Anonymous 2w

Okay please answer me this to everyone hating on me. Would you have a child with someone you KNOW is not going to be present in the kids life?

Anonymous 2w

I absolutely thought she was on birth control and now this bitch is trapping me. I’m sorry but this is totally fucking unfair, I did nothing to deserve this, I’m not going to be around in her life and she wants to have some fucking kid with me? What the fuck? How is this even close to being fair? I’m fucking suffocating over here

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Anonymous

#1 2w

I mean you can’t tell her not to have the kid, but she can’t make you have any role in this kids life. Also don’t call women bitches that’s so gross

Anonymous

#2 2w

If that’s what she wants, or if she doesn’t want that the consequence is the child

Anonymous

#2 2w

I’m not exactly for the way some of them are talking about it, more like it’s an unfortunate situation and it’s her choice, but he’s being so gross that at the same time I don’t care

Anonymous

OP 2w

Fine whatever, this “woman” is being unreasonable with me and wants to fuck up my entire life. How, HOW is that okay? Is that okay to you? For her to fuck me over?

Anonymous

#2 2w

Yeah and so is not being present in the child’s life for him. Like she can abort, he can not be a parent, but people are telling him to step up because he chose to have sex and knew this could be a consequence

Anonymous

OP 2w

I very much don’t think this guy should be in this child’s life for the child’s wellbeing atp anyways, if this is even real

Anonymous

#1 2w

How does it fuck up your life? You don’t have to have anything to do with this child

Anonymous

OP 2w

Child support? I’m going to have to pay child support and she is DEFINITELY the type to go after me for something like that. I’m going to have to go to court and deal with all this fucking shit

Anonymous

#1 2w

I mean maybe? Not all of us are comfortable with abortion even if we are in favor of it being a right. I probably wouldn’t but I don’t actually know how it feels to be pregnant

Anonymous

#2 2w

Exactly

Anonymous

OP 2w

But even if he was more rational, her situation would be raising a child she chose to keep by herself and also paying a lot for that child, and his would be help paying for that child but not having to be in its life because he didn’t want it. I think that sounds rational.

Anonymous

#1 2w

I think there are ways to get out of it. But ultimately you can’t ask a woman to do something with her body she doesn’t want