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Im going to be 23 with no relationship experience or any kind of physical intimacy experience whatsoever. Any tips on when I do eventually start talking to a girl? Should I be as open as possible about my lack of experience? It’s so embarrassing.
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Anonymous 2w

I would be honest about it, honestly it’s not as embarrassing as you think it is. A lot of people I know lately didn’t start dating until their 20’s

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Anonymous 2w

it's not embarrassing or even that unusual

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Anonymous 2w

I wish people would learn that there's no time frame in a lot of things in life. Plenty of people I know didn't start until 21 or after college

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Anonymous 2w

I know several religious women who would actually respect your lack of experience. However, their religious beliefs mean that they expect to be pursued, maybe taken on dates… stuff that required work and confidence. Idk if you even want a religious girlfriend, but my religious friends did tell me how a guy like yourself can get one.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Yeah Ik you are definitely right. It’s just another part of me that has to hear things from family members and it’s just so annoying. So it just makes me think.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

Also it only works if you both have compatible beliefs. Otherwise they will most likely say no and/or try to convert you

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