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Hi, is it a turnoff to a girl if i’m a guy and we are friend w benefits and she showed me the guys she’s fking also and i kinda got a lil mad
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Anonymous 16h

I wouldn’t say that’s a turn off I’d just say maybe it’s weird especially if you aren’t exclusive. But it’s okay to grow feelings for them you’d need to tell them

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Anonymous 4h

if she’s made it clear she only wants to be FWB, then yeah, it could be. it sounds like you’re beginning to get jealous, which could mean you’re beginning to develop feelings or at least getting territorial (weird term ik but idk how else to describe it when you don’t wanna date someone but don’t want them w other people). tbh if it gets worse it could be a turning point where either you ask to become exclusive or you just cut it off entirely bc it’ll only get worse from there

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Anonymous 2h

just have a conversation and set a boundary. “when you do this, it makes me feel” as someone with FWBs this is trashy imo so I understand why you would feel some type of way about it regardless of relationship standards

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