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Should I get a hair transplant? My hairline is killing my confidence and I feel like girls are just automatically rejecting me because of it
32 upvotes, 21 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Ask Women. "Should I get a hair transplant? My hairline is killing my confidence and I feel like girls are just automatically rejecting me because of it"
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Anonymous 1w

Good afternoon! Please don’t consider a hair transplant unless *YOU* want one. Not because you think someone else in the future will want you to get one. For the vast majority of women, your hairline isn’t going to be an inherent dealbreaker or anything like that. Plenty of women will still find you attractive, I promise promise promise :)

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Anonymous 1w

No, just don’t slick your hair back

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Anonymous 1w

Have you tried alternative methods of increasing hair growth? Like using hair oil and doing scalp massages, taking multivitamins, ect?

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Anonymous 1w

if it would make YOU feel better and boost your confidence then yes but the key word here is you!! don’t do something just because you think others will like it

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Anonymous 1w

I say no. I doubt your hair is the reason women aren’t attracted to you hair isn’t that big of a deal to a lot of us. I wouldn’t resort to the surgery for it if it’s not needed

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Anonymous 1w

I’d say just wear your hair longer, or cut it all off

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Anonymous 1w

Do what you think will make you more confident. If it’ll make you happier to get a hair transplant that’s all that really matters. Your joy is what is important. Also, struggling with self confidence is extremely normal, everyone I know has experienced that. You aren’t alone!

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Anonymous 1w

do it for yourself, but have you tried literally anything else first? i think there are tons of guys on youtube that have documented their hair regrowth! yours is only sparse upfront so I see no reason to do an invasive surgery when methods like rogain work perfectly fine

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Anonymous 1w

Go bald

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Anonymous 1w

I would say at this point doing some less invasive hair growth treatments and getting a good haircut would totally handle it

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Anonymous 1w

i honestly think just having a good consultation w a barber and getting the right cut for you would make the difference you’re looking for but also don’t change ur appearance for woman change it for you if that’s why you truly want cause at the end of the day the right one will love you for you my man has a recessing hairline and i’ve never once looked at him and thought “yikes grow some hair” yk?

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Anonymous 1d

use a hair oil like rosemary

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Anonymous 1w

Looks like a normal hairline to me

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Anonymous 1w

if you have the money to do it, that’s one of those things that could completely change your self image if you’re self conscious about it. but only if YOU want it. if you get one you’re probably less likely to go bald when you get older!

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Anonymous 1w

There is a way to fix it if it isn’t genetic. How one tells if the hair falls where one touches it rather than it getting progressively bad all over. Collegian is needed to strengthen the hair follicle and herbal cream leaving on the hair overnight to stimulate the follicle to grow. This takes time but it’ll eventually fill up.

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Anonymous 1w

How old r u?

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Anonymous replying to -> aquacyclone 1w

I used to struggle with confidence & had self esteem issues bc of my body for a very long time. I know how much that sucks. If you feel the need to vent or discuss further please feel free to DM me :) hang in there!

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Anonymous replying to -> aquacyclone 1w

Exceedingly common Aquacyclone W

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

I had hair loss problems bc of athletics and having my hair up all the time which definitely isn’t the same. But after researching and mixing my own homemade hair oil and using it with a scalp massager before I wash my hair, my hair has been growing like crazy and my hairline looks much better

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 1w

I think bald guys are hot and I’m not ashamed to admit it ✊

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 1w

Same bald guy with glasses

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