Ask Women on Sidechat | If my 29 year old fiance is acting like a 5 year old (whining and crying over minor inconveniences), can I tell her that? Or can you help me word how to tell her? At my wits end. I’m the most patient and calm person ever, never show anger towards her.

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If my 29 year old fiance is acting like a 5 year old (whining and crying over minor inconveniences), can I tell her that? Or can you help me word how to tell her? At my wits end. I’m the most patient and calm person ever, never show anger towards her.

Anonymous 5w

Emotions are always valid but behavior can be adjusted. Coping mechanisms that aren’t taught or utilized when growing up tend to create nasty habits for adults. The nervous system just needs a breathing exercise so the brain can operate when stress isn’t eating away at it. Hope this helps.

Anonymous 5w

I would ask her why she reacts the way she reacts. Maybe (hopefully) there's something deeper then you can go on from there. Afterwards tell her how her reactions make you feel about her

Anonymous 5w

You can tell her anything. She’s your fiancée. Just word your phrases correctly and you’re good

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I appreciate this comment!

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I appreciate this comment too! Thank you!