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Should I just give up if most girls in my life haven’t seen me as a sexual being and more as a silly friend or sweet guy? I feel like I don’t have edge which is why I’m unsuccessful but that’s also not really who I am and I am not performative
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Anonymous 23h

No, don’t give up. One of my friends is the “silly guy” of the friend group and ended up being asked out by a cool goth woman because she truly loved spending time with him. They’re so cute

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Anonymous 20h

Don’t give up, you can definitely work on the side of you that exudes sexual energy and increase it. Some people do it naturally and others need to do a little bit of research and practice but I think if you’re confident enough to be playful and have fun around girls then you’re halfway there imo

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