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If I’m working in the quiet section of the library at my school and I see someone cute, is it weird to just like slip them a note with my phone number just saying like “hey, sorry to interrupt, but I think you’re really pretty, hope we can talk sometime”
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Anonymous 3w

that’s cute i like this idea

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Anonymous 3w

Honestly that’s reasonable. It puts the court in their hands without distracting anyone else

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Anonymous 3w

Or something like that it doesn’t have to be exactly like that

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Anonymous 3w

Lowkey as a girl I do that but I do it as a drive by when I’m leaving and I don’t give my number

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Anonymous 3w

DO IT I wish this would happen to me

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Anonymous 3w

i hope that this happens to me someday

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Anonymous 3w

DO IT

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Anonymous 3w

Yes, just mind your business. Women don’t like being talked to that way at all anymore anyway.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Well then how do you reconnect?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Do you do Instagram?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I don’t. I just compliemnt them somehow bc I’d prefer to be friends with a guy first

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

I dont have anyone in so far but I’m just feeling myself recently and also craving some romance

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

But this also might be bc this a guy I really like rn that I have class with and study with but I’m just the type of person to want to compliment ppl

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Yeah everyone is different, that why I like to leave the ball in their court and keep it low pressure

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I also like just complimenting people

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Also I’m not a being friends first kinda person. Sometimes I have caught feelings for friends and it’s out of my hands, but in general my intentions are clear in my head from the start

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Me too

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I get that but I’ve attracted good and bad guys and at the current point in my life I’d rather get to know a guy first rather than jumping into a relationship or even talking stage. And when I’m in a relationship I tend to ignore red flags so I just need to protect myself

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

Who hurt you 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

That’s so not true in my experience

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

I wish it would happen to me 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

I’ll def do it if I feel inclined I’m pretty bold about shooting my shot

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Yeah that makes sense. I just don’t view it as so serious when we start going out I guess, but obviously everyone is different and has different styles. I’ve been out with some shitty women and then I’m just like “well that definitely wasn’t the one 🤷‍♂️”

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

I literally just got a date from this today 🫵😂

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Luck

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

I mean there’s always an element of luck like I’ve been rejected many times too 🤷‍♂️

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