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told my parents i have a boyfriend and my dad's reaction was just "again? i thought i made my thoughts clear after last time" i am 20 🫩 i basically just told him i dont care. what do i even do in this situation
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Anonymous 3d

for context- i don't live at home, dad is upset he didn't get introduced before we made things official. said he had some things to talk about as men without me being there 😭 i told him that's ridiculous and not happening

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Anonymous 3d

extremely weird response

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Anonymous 2d

lmao in ten years he’s gonna be like why haven’t you given me grandchildren yet

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Anonymous 2d

He’s being over protective, I would try to avoid bringing it up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

“Talk about as men” I’m sorry what the hell does that even mean? Sounds like some shit my dad would say

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Guy here, do you have peacock?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

Or have you seen Brooklynn 99

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

From who?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

If it was me, theres a specific episode where Santiago rips her dad and jake a new one because they’re fighting over if he is good enough for her and she basically says idgaf what either of you say i can decide for myself

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

from the dad. I didn't reply to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

Ohhh, i sometimes fuck up replies and was mildly confused

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

Probably he will threaten the boy or something, since he doesn’t want her to be there to see it

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Anonymous replying to -> jimmyincellerino 2d

^^

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2d

no for real, he's been tell me since maybe 15 that he wants grandkids by the time i'm 21 but then he freaks out any time i mention a man

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2d

he also wasn't a fan of the idea of me being a lesbian though so idrk what he wants 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2d

it's giving really wants to have grandkids but isn't willing to see me be an adult

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2d

that's what i was trying to do, last time i had a bf he yelled at me for not introducing them before making things official and i wasn't even gonna mention it to him but my brother brought it up in front of the whole family 🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

i agree. i feel objectified in a way if that makes sense ? like, he wants to feel like he has control over me until another man that he approves of has control over me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

that's what i'm saying like what could you possibly need to say to my poor shy boyfriend 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

no...

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

you have it exactly right.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Man that’s annoying

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

sigh. perks of growing up in the bible belt i guess. too bad idgaf what he thinks

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2d

yeah... oh well. at least i know im not the crazy one

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