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I became close to someone who kept steering things in a sexual direction, even when I wasn’t fully comfortable. I adjusted, thinking that was just normal were between us.
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Anonymous 2w

Today, he flipped the narrative and said things were “too sexual” and used that as his exit. I feel hurt and need advise

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Anonymous 2w

Im sorry :( ive been there too my ex did that for a year and then accused me of pressuring her into sex when i never even started it

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Anonymous 2w

Update today he texts me and says; Hi I'm particularly excited that you decided to unblock my account. I want to restate that you are a wonderful person with unique qualities. I am extremely privileged to connect with you and to know you. I wish to keep you and continue to engage with you for a lifetime. More importantly, I sincerely apologize for the inconvenience I caused yesterday. I'm deeply sorry.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Hmmmm it’s crazy! I’m so sad. He unfollowed me and this has just been 4 weeks of communication. He started all those sexual conversations and now makes it look like I’m at fault. It’s crazy out there

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

he was just looking for an excuse. you didn't do anything wrong.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

You are so much more than that. Keep your head up, don’t let this define you. Men are shit and don’t mature till WAAAAYYYYY later in life, not saying it’s an excuse but it makes me feel better. On a positive note, you know the dos and donts next time. This is all of our first times living, we make mistakes, and we learn from them. I know your a great person and you will get through this awful period

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

I love you!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

<3

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