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I incur $3,350 a month on just myself alone (fixed essential costs)... How the heck do you guys do it with kids & a family?!! 😱
17 upvotes, 10 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Ask Women. "I incur $3,350 a month on just myself alone (fixed essential costs)... How the heck do you guys do it with kids & a family?!! 😱"
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Anonymous 2d

My Brothers family lives in DC (he’s a lawyer, she’s a lawyer) combined income is and I’m guessing here but around 400 hundred maybe close to 500 hundred a year. Two children one dog two cars, 3 bedroom 2 and a half bath mortgage. The private schools take at least 200 a year. Taxes takes another 120. They are both late 30s. They will make it but man the schools are a killer. I mean think about it that’s basically a Ferrari a year just to go to school. In Texas they each could drive a Porsche?

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Anonymous 2d

How are you incurring over $3k a month just on yourself

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Anonymous 2d

The people with 2-3 kids a dog and two cars are all working hard. Many live in places like Cleveland say Akron and commute to say Cleveland. I live in San Antonio well out in the suburbs which legally are all separate little cities. The schools are all still let’s say decent so unlike DC and NYC ( am speaking about within the five Burroughs and inside DC limits) you have no choice if you have children but to utilize private schools.

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Anonymous 2d

and what are these fixed essential costs

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Anonymous 2d

I suppose that’s why there is a McLaren of Dallas a Ferrari of Dallas and even a RUF of Dallas. All the doctors can send kids to public school and then Texas Tech and still have money for swimming pools and ridiculous automotive toys.

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Anonymous 1d

Living for $3300 a month is pretty reasonable. You will make more than enough to save up with that budget in most jobs. I’m 24, I make ~400k a year, and I spend 50-60k, and save the rest. $2400 monthly rent. $20k on travel, dining & alcohol, and 10k on household expenses.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

I can easily see that in rent, water, power and gas in say DC, north through to Boston really any place east of I-95 from as I said DC to Boston.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

There would prob still be ways to cut back unless you just chose to live in a high apartment or house with a very high mortgage. Bc on yourself alone $3 seems like a lot. The norm for me at my age is like $1500 min if including bills and my own groceries, gas and insurance but like exceeding $2200

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

I live in the DC area (not in though) and rent for a one bedroom apartment on average is 2500. I can see someone spending that much in my area but most places it’s again not likely.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

These people are leaving out of their means. You cannot afford private school at that price with only 500k

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