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I am so over double standards. How is it “socially acceptable” for a guy to get with a lot of girls, but when a girl KISSES a guy when she was drunk at a bar it’s suddenly “bad” and “embarrassing” and then she’s a slut?? Like what?
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Anonymous 1w

Misogyny

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Anonymous 1w

fuck that noise. do what you want

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Anonymous 1w

Not saying it makes it okay but it’s because many women can get kisses from whoever they want whereas men have to have game and skills to do that

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

i’ve always thought this was such a stupid argument. like because we’re better at getting laid we should be shamed for it? i can see why it can be seen as more “impressive” for men to get action by that logic, but where does the shame part come from ?

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 1w

I totally agree! Yea maybe men need to “have game” but why can’t I go out, have fun and let loose without worrying that I’ll be called a slut? That’s what pisses me off. If a man can do it and get praised for it why can’t I? (I don’t need to be praised just want to live my live in peace and positivity)

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 1w

Well men are easy, that’s the point. Women can get any guy they want so it’s seen as a bad thing for them to not show self control. Again, not saying I necessarily agree with this but that’s the argument

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

men are easy but women are the ones shamed for being easy. crazy world we live in. i wish more ppl would grow out of such sex negative lines of thinking, it’s so tired and heavily rooted in patriarchal norms

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Women have a biological advantage in the dating/hookup sphere, therefore it’s wrong for them to use it? That’s not what we tell tall basketball players and light jockeys

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 1w

You’re not better at getting laid. You don’t do anything but just sit there and wait for someone to come to you. Zero skills at all And the “shame” for women who sleep around comes because no one wants a woman who’s been with 1000 other guys, any self respecting man prefers virgin women, whereas women HATE virgin men and would rather go for the guy with 1000 body count because he’s hot.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Yes it is actually wrong because they’re not using it the right way, they’re not using it to pleasure all men, they’re only using it for the top 20% of men and riding the chad cock carousel while the bottom 80% barely get anything. You women go crazy and apeshit about how we need to fix economic inequality, but if someone like me mentions dating inequality you also go apeshit, but in the other direction and attempt to defend it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

“It’s wrong for women to use their sexuality in a way that doesn’t pleasure all men” Bro, you are not entitled to someone else’s body. Idk what to say. Wanna know why you’re not in the “top 20%”? Because of that mindset right there. Your feelings of entitlement. I would NEVER sleep with a guy who acted like he was entitled to me. It would gross me out.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

And yet you guys go crazy for the “bad boys” who treat you like shit. Jeremy Meeks, Wade Wilson, Ted Bundy, these are guys that are criminals, two of them serial killers, yet women go crazy for them. Is me being “entitled” to happiness, worse than being a serial killer? No, the reason women treat me worse is because I’m ugly. It’s ALL about looks. I’m not a serial killer. I’m just ugly and that’s why women hate me Also when I wasn’t “entitled”, I still got nothing. So then I saw these guys

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

—Getting everything and then I felt “entitled”. And I still get nothing so might as well be entitled and get nothing while respecting myself, rather than bow on my knees for these girls just to get spit on. This is why chivalry is dead Also is it really “entitlement” to just want basic happiness and companionship? Am I so entitled just because I don’t wanna die alone

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

If you were the king of a country and one of your subjects was hated for molesting a child, would you force someone to marry that person?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

I never molested or hurt anyone, I’m not evil, so why do I get treated like I always am? There’s murderers and child molesters with women that love them, am I worse than them?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

That’s not the point. The point is “force someone to marry”. Even if you are perfect, you still do not have the right to force someone to marry you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

So you think it’s okay that murderers and molesters can get a partner and happiness while I get nothing and die alone Also I never said forcing them to marry. We didn’t force women to marry 40 years ago but most men were still happy with a wife. Now over 65% of young men are single and crying themselves to sleep because women became so superficial, they’d rather date a hot child molesting serial killer rather than a kind and loyal but slightly ugly guy

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

lol i’ve pulled everyone i’ve wanted, romantically and sexually, have a high body count, and still rejected the vast majority that wanted me. never been rejected for my body count, only younger inexperienced men care about that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

and respectfully, you don’t know what i was like when i was single, i wasn’t just sitting there waiting for someone to come to you. i actually approached ppl too and slept with my fair share of women which took more initiating. spouting incel rhetoric isn’t making you any more desirable, no one feels bad for you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

For most of recent history, women were banned from basic freedoms such as having a job and owning property. Marriage was how they avoided starvation. Wanting something is different from feeling entitled to it. I want to own a microscope, but I know that I have earn the money to get one and then take proper care of it. I’m not going to get mad at the microscope manufacturers if they refuse to sell me one. Because I am not entitled to their microscopes.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Your sense of entitlement comes from the fact that you think women’s preferences are some sort of terrible injustice. If you said “I’m bummed that women don’t want me”, that would be fine. But you said “it is wrong because they’re not using it [their sexuality] the right way”. See the difference?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

bro thinks he’s facing discrimination bc he can’t get laid

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 1w

I giggled at this

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 1w

Because you’re a WOMAN. On tinder all you have to do is just put the word “female” and you’ll get 100 matches

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

What are you guys even talking about I don’t feel like reading

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 1w

But they still approached you too. And yeah, of course you don’t feel bad for me. I know that. You could care less if I die alone. So why should I give a FUCK about any of you???

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

he’s mad that he’ll never be as desirable as women

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Wrong

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

you clearly do care a whole lot bout women if not getting any attention from us has caused you to be this absolute crash out of a human being. focus on yourself man. turn down the incel rhetoric. your resentment towards women will never help you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

does it piss you off that the high body count women that you shit on are still more desired than you? ya know what i think it is. i think its just jealousy

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

I think you have NPD. Not to armchair diagnose or anything, but you behaved exactly how I predicted you would after guessing you had NPD. (1) sense of entitlement, (2) doubled down on claims made, (3) refused to admit any sort of error or see any nuance, (4) got mad when people didn’t sympathize with your concerns. Very predictable pattern. I do hope that you live alone, and here’s why: people with NPD typically abuse their romantic partners.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

The truth is, people with NPD who live their lives in denial often do die alone. This is because most of them refuse to see their own errors, because most of them refuse to self-improve. If you have NPD, which you probably do, you must learn to face hard truths. Otherwise you will destroy your closest relationships and most likely die alone.

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 1w

You’re beating a drugged horse. 5 most likely has NPD and will not listen or learn from anything we say. I told him as much. Doubt it will help, but there is always that .5% of NPD people who are brave enough to face their fears and become better people.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Listen I understand that you have a lot of anger and frustration. But that still doesn’t answer my original point. I still don’t understand why it’s socially expectable for men to go out and sleep with 5,000 different women but when a women KISSES someone when she is having fun at the bar it is suddenly looked down upon. Why can’t girls not live their life and instead be labeled as “easy” like you said and takes away from their self worth but when a man is easy it’s totally fine

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Ok so then how would you feel if you did everything to get the money to own a microscope, worked your ass off and got DOUBLE the money, but then when you went to buy it, they refused to sell it because your face was ugly Now also imagine that without the microscope, you can never have kids, never have a family, and will die alone. That microscope is incredibly important to your dreams and now you can’t get it because you’re ugly. This is my situation. You would be angry too

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 1w

Yes it literally is discrimination. My life is ruined because of it. And yes, Lookism is a form of discrimination. Did your parents not teach you to not judge people by their looks??? And you think you have the moral high ground here???

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 1w

Yes I am. I am mad that no one loves me and I’m gonna die alone and cry myself to sleep everyday. No fucking shit. Everyone would be mad in my position

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 1w

How am I a crash out when I bet I’m in way better shape than you, work WAY harder than you, 14 hours a day with two jobs, and I have more in my bank account. (And if I don’t then that’s because you only got gifted the money because your a woman) I’m doing everything right, but I have no love in my life and it’s all so empty because I’m ugly Meanwhile you get all the love you could ever want with your 2000 body count just because you were born with a pssy instead of a dck

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 1w

Yes it does piss me off glad you noticed. And yes I am jealous. You’re such an evil person, you see someone suffering and you just continue to mock and hate even harder, you are proving me right

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

I’m not narcissistic. I serve everybody I can and help everyone I can. They all know me as a great guy but I’m ugly af apparently so I get no bjtches. And yes, after all I do and how hard I work, yes I am entitled to happiness. Are you so evil to think that people don’t deserve happiness??? And yeah I’m doubling down because I’m right. And yeah I am mad because I get treated like shit just because of how I look, is that not valid?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

“Just self improov bro!!!” Bro I self improve harder than you’ll ever know. I workout everyday till my legs and arms go numb. I work 14 hours a day with two different jobs. I do EVERYTHING by the books, I do EVERYTHING people say to do, and yet I get NOTHING in return, that’s why I am rightfully upset And I’ve already faced the hard truth. That is, im ugly and it’s over no matter what I do

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

I bet I’m the most “better” person here. I wait hand and foot taking care of my disabled mother, she literally cries when thanking me for all I do for her. The second anybody needs help, I immediately get up and go to help. No complaining. No bickering. Nothing. I just do it. For nothing in return all my life And that’s exactly what I’ve gotten, nothing in return

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Because women are hard to get, if a man gets a lot of women, he’s probably hot af. Men are easy to get. It’s like picking up a grain of dirt. Women are hard it’s like fining a diamond. Also I’m fine with women living their lives and being “easy” to get. I’d prefer that because it would fix everything in this dating market. I’d love an easy to get woman to come my way

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

I am not reading allat

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Bro can I not see who he’s replying to or is he just having a major crashout? 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

No it’s because #4 and “hellraiser” made like 1000 separate comments to my one comment, and I addressed and debunked each one of them one by one And I’m not crashing out I’m speaking the truth

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Of course you won’t. Demons won’t read the Bible either 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Did you just compare your yapfest to a religious scripture

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