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This true? If so, why?
50 upvotes, 16 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Ask Women. "This true? If so, why?"
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Anonymous 4d

I would say no. When you are doing things you actually enjoy while also doing other things to impress people (like dressing well and skincare etc) that’s the best.

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Anonymous 4d

Wanting to impress someone isn’t the issue. It’s coming off as desperate or inauthentic that is when trying to impress someone that is.

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Anonymous 4d

Why would I be attracted to that?

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Anonymous 4d

Hell no

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Anonymous 4d

Commenting to find out!

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Anonymous 4d

Lmao Welcome back, Joseph Heller!

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Anonymous 4d

Sometimes, because if I get the sense that someone is trying to impress me, it can come off as ingenuine. It’s hot when my S/O does it though.

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Anonymous 3d

If someone is trying to impress me, I want to know why. Their reason for doing so, that tells me more about who they are and what’s important to them.

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Anonymous 4d

Because it comes across as desperate I’m attracted to people who naturally do impressive things

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Anonymous 4d

Everyone wants what they can’t have. Men and women. Yes women are way more attractive to me if they ignore and or reject me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3d

I don’t think that applies to everyone, that sounds like a you thing

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3d

Damn🤣🤣 might need a psychologist

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3d

You genuinely might. That is not a thing. People want a person who treats them well.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 2d

Yeah… you actually might. No offense, but as a woman, guys who don’t take no for an answer and assume that it’s all a mind game are very annoying. I just want to read my book in peace 😭. Also, that kind of mindset can sometimes come from psychological abnormalities such as difficulty with empathy or from being emotionally abused.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 2d

I don’t know anything about you, but for some people it’s… sort of a psychological need to feel dominant over something or someone. A desire to bend someone to your will. If you approach relationships with a psychological need to bend someone to your will, you are likely to hurt everyone you date. Especially if you have a short fuse or don’t know how to self-reflect or manage your emotions. Again I don’t know you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2d

Oh no honestly for me it’s quite the opposite you can totally ask me more about it in DMs but I don’t really want break it down for everyone to see honestly. #10 and #2 I can explain🙏🏻 I never am forceful in that sense I think it’s honestly the opposite

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