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How can I stop being so scared of my girl cheating on me when she’s given me no signs and been so against cheating the whole time we’ve been together
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Anonymous 4w

Have you ever looked into attachment theory? Sounds like you may be anxiously attached. This is something you can look into and work on individually if you want a fulfilling relationship for yourself

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Anonymous 4w

You have to seek deep where that insecurity is rooting from, and keep pulling yourself into reality. Trust 🙏

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Anonymous 4w

therapy if possible and communicating w her i think

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Anonymous 4w

Trust is everything in a relationdhip. Talk to her about it, communicate how you feel and see how she responds. Learn to trust until you see signs that break trust. Be vulnerable

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Communicating that I’m scared she’s cheating?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

NO don’t accuse her of cheating, maybe try being vulnerable and say you’re scared of being cheated on again (if u have been), or explain where the actual trauma/fear is coming from

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