
It’s not confidence issues, this is directly how women have described me. I’m creating a video debunking the idea that “confidence” is attractive. It’s just that attractive guys tend to be the ones confident in the first place because they’re the ones who always get validated and loved. Also, confidence with girls as an ugly guy is considered harassment.
“I’m a virgin but I’m not a incel!” is a totally false idea. Incel directly means Involuntary Celibate. If you’re a virgin, and you want a girlfriend, but you can’t find one, then you’re an incel. It’s like saying “I’m in the US army, not the military!” Its the same thing no matter how much you wanna cope
Theres a logical fallacy if Ive ever seen one. Trying to use false equivalencies to describe something. You're gonna give the whole spiel about how the definition of incel means this when someone says the definition has changed to mean something different. Like dude you're doing this to yourself
I really disagree, I think there is a state of mind that separates “incels”from other people who are down on their luck & not getting laid. It’s more of a squares and rectangles thing (all incels are sexless but not all sexless people are incels) and I think your analogy is a false equivalency.
To address the confidence parts. If you were going in for a job interview would you describe yourself as someone who is always late and lazy? Or would you describe yourself as someone who is on time and a hardworker to your interviewer? Then imagine applying that to dating. If you told a girl "hey Im an ugly incel" that doesn't sound too appealing.