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It’d be really nice if more straight women/female “allies” could more actively participate in unlearning toxic masculinity. Signed, a gay man tired of hearing and seeing girls calling straight men and their bfs gay for random bs
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Anonymous 8w

agreed. i feel like a lot of trends tie into enforcing gender norms and ppl don’t even realize it.

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Anonymous 8w

Not a question but agreed

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Anonymous 8w

Yup - as a lesbian it makes me feel so weird to hear straight women all but use “gay” as an insult to men

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Anonymous 8w

What do you think about pretending to be a man when ppl send you creepy dms, with the intent of inflicting discomfort on the creep? Often the discomfort is homophobic in nature, but it’s sometimes just satisfying to tell someone to fuck off in a way that makes them genuinely regret bothering you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8w

But also, I don’t want to give these creeps more fuel to hate the LGBTQ+ community. I mean they do anyway. Ugh, is a little revenge worth it?

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