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Does being bi/flamboyant make you less attractive as a guy? Do certain stereotypes of girls like it more? Since being more myself vs an average straight guy, my luck with girls has plateaued to say the least and I need some advice for picturing myself.
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Anonymous 6w

I’m bi so I may not have the same opinions as many straight women, but I don’t think being more flamboyant is bad at all! The only issue I can really think on that front is maybe people assuming you’re gay (meaning you wouldn’t be interested in them in them that way) but being yourself like what #1 said is always the way to go.

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Anonymous 6w

Most people would probably assume you’re gay instead of bi. What bi erasure has done to society ig. Tbh I’d love a flamboyant bi guy, but it’s probably not everyone’s thing

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Anonymous 6w

It’s not my thing, but I know friends who would swoon over you. Some people won’t like it, and some people will. Do what makes you happy bro <3

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Anonymous 6w

Be yourself. I say this as someone who is NB a lot of women like flamboyant men, but what REALLY matters is being yourself and being confident. Women like that more.

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Anonymous 6w

I'm low-key just super unserious and everyone thinks I'm gay when they first meet me cuz of it, but I've had no problem finding dates and hookups with women. I'm bi but lean straight. I think it really just comes down to who's around you and if you're their type. The copy-and-paste kinds of people aren't going to like you, so you need to find your kind of weird

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