The best way to attract someone who is right for you is to be your absolute authentic self. i’m not gonna lie to you, there will be women who are not as attracted to you/ interested in a relationship because of those traits, but those are not the right women for you.

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I’m bi so I may not have the same opinions as many straight women, but I don’t think being more flamboyant is bad at all! The only issue I can really think on that front is maybe people assuming you’re gay (meaning you wouldn’t be interested in them in them that way) but being yourself like what #1 said is always the way to go.

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Most people would probably assume you’re gay instead of bi. What bi erasure has done to society ig. Tbh I’d love a flamboyant bi guy, but it’s probably not everyone’s thing

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It’s not my thing, but I know friends who would swoon over you. Some people won’t like it, and some people will. Do what makes you happy bro <3

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Be yourself. I say this as someone who is NB a lot of women like flamboyant men, but what REALLY matters is being yourself and being confident. Women like that more.

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I'm low-key just super unserious and everyone thinks I'm gay when they first meet me cuz of it, but I've had no problem finding dates and hookups with women. I'm bi but lean straight. I think it really just comes down to who's around you and if you're their type. The copy-and-paste kinds of people aren't going to like you, so you need to find your kind of weird

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