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Ask Women 17h
How do yall date as plus size women??😭Everytime I attempt I get nowhere and i’m so sure it’s my looks. I’m 21 now and have never had a bf or even got close to it
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Anonymous 14h

I’m not plus sized but as a bi woman, I feel like if you put (more) effort into your appearance? Like do your makeup well, and wear cute clothes, make sure you particularly smell good? I’m not sure what yll or what u do alr, but I always feel like plus sized ppl are so much prettier when it looks like they TRIED. The attraction is the effort, which is why gym girls get away with no makeup easily. Because the work ethic/effort is their body, where yours is your face/clothes. I can elaborate more

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Anonymous 15h

girl same. 21, and completely inexperienced. fml.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

Honestly my hair is always done, i do my makeup often, whenever i go out i look nice and smell good but i don’t go out much bc of nursing school. My face is one of my best assets tbh, no acne, pretty tone, and cute with and without makeup. I try but at the end of the day I can only get so far with those things. But i def get what you’re saying!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

Do you have a celebrity you could compare your body type to? I’m curious what we’re working with. Have you considered a glp1 to help you lose weight? And exercise when you can work it into your schedule? Glp1 is $200 a month on a low dose, and if you eat healthy + exercise with it then you can stay on a low dose for a long time and still see weight loss. I’m not sure if we’re talking size 10 Jean “plus size” or rebel Wilson size. Idk how to explain that better I’m sorry if it comes across rude

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