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Ask Women 19h
So idk what’s going on but recently anytime me and my bf get intimate I just cry when he’s inside. Like no reason. Is it psychological or could it be something else?? Please help I feel like I’m ruining it for him.
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Anonymous 19h

It’s actually more common then you would think:) I promise nothings wrong with you

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Anonymous 18h

Might just be the emotional intensity or feeling of vulnerability. are there any specific strong emotions you feel?

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Anonymous 7h

I cry when I orgasm bc it feels so good and it’s like my body’s way of expressing aside from moaning loud. It’s an automatic reaction. Guys will ask if I’m ok and then a few times they’re like wait it’s actually so hot. It’s normal. It’s happens. Nothings wrong with you 🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

Oh. But is there a reason why it happens?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Sometimes it’s just how it feels, sometimes it can be tied to trauma or even love

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

I just cry honestly. Like last night he left me alone to hit his vape then it was like I just had got more stress cause I was just alone after we did that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

uhhmm there's nothing wrong with being overwhelmed with emotions *sometimes*, but you might want to get therapy if it's happening all the time. i don't wanna diagnose a stranger or anything, but could this be codependency ? is it specifically him that brings out these emotions?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

sex makes a bunch of neurotransmitters and hormones fly around in your body, maybe that’s just how you react to them and not necessarily a sign of something psychological

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16h

i disagree that its codependency,, op, have you ever heard of aftercare? sounds like you could benefit from some time together after sex to decompress and talk about what did/didnt work :)

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