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Is it weird to DM a girl on Instagram if you don’t know her if you’re respectful about it?
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Anonymous 2w

There’s nothing inherently wrong with it, but don’t take it personal if she doesn’t respond or declines to talk a lot! Especially if she doesn’t know you

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Anonymous 2w

not inherently, but i'd never respond unless we had a ton of mutuals/knew of each other

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Anonymous 2w

A lil bit

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Anonymous 2w

Not weird, shoot your shot.

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Anonymous replying to -> aquacyclone 2w

You say this but I bet you’d cry and say you’re being harassed when someone DMs you. Lying bitch

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

I genuinely hope whatever is going on in your life that lead to you typing that message resolves & that you find happiness :)

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Anonymous replying to -> aquacyclone 2w

I’m trying to find ways to meet new people, but when I am in person it always feels like I’m interrupting or being rude or they shouldn’t be bothered

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

What makes it weird

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

It’s tough for everyone, I’m v awkward & get where you’re coming from. You seem sweet & like you have good intentions, keep plugging away at it & I’m sure that’ll come across & you’ll have some results soon :)

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Anonymous replying to -> aquacyclone 2w

If someone is sitting alone scrolling on their phone, and I order my coffee and ask to sit down with them to try and say hi or at a library and they are working on their laptop, is that weird or creepy?

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