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Ask Women 17h
As a man, how do I tell a girl that I’m not experienced in bed and that not to expect much? Like I don’t know I know it sounds so stupid but
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Anonymous 17h

I wouldnt say to not expect much thats a copout. Id frame it to them and yourself that youre new and eager to learn how to please a woman bc that takes accountability where the other phrasing deflects it

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Anonymous 17h

Say "I'm not experienced in bed" don't try to lower their expectations by putting yourself down

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Anonymous 15h

I wouldn’t say it like that… I would tell her “I haven’t had much experience but I will listen to you and learning what you like me to do and works for you and us”.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

Lowk that’s very true, thank you for your POV helps a lot 🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

See thing is I’ve had incidents before and everytime I made them finish, so I think I’m positive I can make them feel good still but it’s like a weird feeling idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15h

I wish it was that easy, but I gotta find that her first anyways

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

Oh I thought this was about someone you’re talking to specifically. But you can still keep that in mind, it’s important to communicate honestly and not negatively either.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8h

Thank you so much for the advice appreciate you 🫶

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