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I feel like if you reach the point of having to propose to your man because he still hasn't then he doesn't actually want to marry you...do you agree?

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Anonymous 4w

Honestly! If you have to do it because he’s such a wuss, you deserve better

Anonymous 4w

Like this shit is so embarrassing he didn't even want to face the camera

Anonymous 4w

as a woman who has been with way too many men who refuse to fully commit, this is so real. for some ppl, sure, the woman proposing works, but for me my man is proposing. i will never be begging for a man to be with me ever again. if he rly wants me, he can come get me.

Anonymous 4w

I loved this proposal because not only did she intend on marrying him but he also had the intention of marrying her. But if its been 10 years and a woman is on her knee because she's fed up and just wants to get married I think thats horrible because it seems like the man had little intention of marrying her and is just accepting it to shut her up

Anonymous 4w

why waste ur life committing to someone who won’t commit to you 🥱 if he won’t someone else will!!! NEXTTTTT

Anonymous 4w

No literally if he wanted to he would , Dave yourself a divorce honestly

Anonymous 4w

Like y girl , he clearly had enough time yk fudge that

Anonymous 4w

if you’re not willing to do what you’re expecting from them, then you’re just as “guilty” if you’re so locked into general roles that you won’t propose to your partner, then you’re a problem

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Anonymous 4w

No real man will ever allow this to occur. If this is the case, your “man” has become more feminine than you, and likely is infertile.

Anonymous 4w

pls shoot me if i ever pull ts.

Anonymous 4w

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Anonymous 4w

Yes

Anonymous 4w

That’s why it’s important to discuss intentions early on. If you want to married within 5 years or so and the other doesn’t have an idea if they want to get married, move on. It seems harsh, but when you’re intentional you can’t gamble on whether the person will eventually make up their mind.

Anonymous 3w

A man knows within 6 months if he wants to marry or not. If he hasn’t proposed by a year you’re wasting your time. Ladies trust me don’t settle.

Anonymous 4w

Y’all are a bunch of misogynistic man haters. Damn a woman can’t propose to a man? WTH is wrong with y’all. Thought you’d be happy for her

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Anonymous

#4 4w

Reread what I said and keep it moving

Anonymous

#4 4w

Lmaoo more than half of us are women and it’s called self respect why marrying someone by begging them bc they didn’t want to ask you like bffr especially after so long

Anonymous

OP 4w

14 years? Father of four?! Living unhappily with his parents?!!!! 😳 it keeps getting worse

Anonymous

#4 4w

women can propose, but it depends why they’re doing it

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Anonymous

need4speed 4w

Okay what the fuck 😭✋ I generally agree with the OP but why did you have to make it into some weird toxic masculinity thing

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Anonymous 4w

I’m mostly just flabbergasted it didn’t get downvoted to hell

Anonymous

#13 4w

i think it’s more the issue of someone proposing JUST because their partner won’t. like if u’ve been begging to get married and there’s no movement on the other side so u just take it into ur own hands, it kind of feels like ur partner maybe just didn’t want to get married/didn’t care to put the effort in. it shouldn’t be done out of desperation. proposals should happen bc the person just wanted to, not as a last ditch effort to lock down their partner.

Anonymous

#5 4w

it’s still really doesn’t change anything. If you’re setting a standard based off of a gender, then getting mad for them, not doing something that you could do. Then that is setting up a manipulative toxic environment. I’m glad I’m gay because it seriously seems like straight people hate each other. Y’all set up so many contradictive and archaic ways of having a relationship.

Anonymous

#13 4w

i just wouldn’t want to have to take the next step if my partner isn’t willing to either. it should be a conversation of if u want to be proposed to or if u want to do the proposing for sure and i’ve been in relationships where the man wants to be the one to propose and he still won’t and i’m not going to be waiting around with the hope that one day he’ll finally make the commitment.

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Anonymous

#5 4w

that’s such a strawman argument kind of perception about it. If you’re expecting that of them then why don’t you show that you can do it as well?

Anonymous

#5 4w

like basically making the argument “oh they won’t do it because they’re weak,” when it’s something that you won’t do is manipulative at best

Anonymous 4w

not every woman has kids and most people don’t view women as breeding props. So that does not even play into it.

Anonymous

#13 4w

it’s kind of a feeling. guys that i’ve dealt with in the past never actually talked or acted like they were all in. it felt like if i didn’t propose, then they never would so why would i. in contrast my current partner i would do anything for because i KNOW that he would do anything for me. i want to see and feel effort from my partner without having to fight for it. it should be a natural want, not something i have to beg for.

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Anonymous

#5 4w

then the issue isn’t proposal the issue is you choosing people who are not committed to you.

Anonymous

tomatogames 4w

this whole post is that

Anonymous

#7 4w

If I see y’all tryna propose to a man we are gonna wrestle now GET UP!!!!

Anonymous

#16 3w

six months? surely not

Anonymous

#7 3w

It’s true man. I knew