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I’ve been talking to this guy for over a month now, I really like him. come to find out that he’s shorter than me ( I’m 5’9 for perspective), we’re both really frustrated about it and I just don’t get why. It’s really not a big deal at all. Idk what to do
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Anonymous 5w

are you frustrated because he thinks it matters and you don't want it to?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

It’s either that or I have an internal hatred towards my own height because it’s ruining the one time I’ve desired a relationship with someone

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

He hasn’t disclosed that he thought it mattered he just told me he’s been frustrated all day and because I am I can talk why

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

so you're frustrated just by the possibility that he's frustrated by it, and he hasn't even said he is?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Yes. I’m hopeless. And It sounds like exaggerating, but ive been turned down so many times because of it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

this sounds like a clear case of shooting yourself in the foot. you're ratcheting up the amount of frustration between you two based solely on your own insecurity. at least let him say something first

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Okie

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