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I’m so sick of being single but I hate the thought of dating apps because I don’t want a hookup I want something real #helpme
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Anonymous 11w

Honestly? There’s no real advice for this. Approach someone you think is attractive, try and ask your friends to set you up

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Anonymous 10w

Not everyone on dating apps only want to hook up. I would say just try the apps..you never know if your person is on there if you don’t try!

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Anonymous 11w

Hookups are real

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

In terms of being physically present in your perception of reality, sure, but the expectation is a lack of continuous contact after the hookup…which is the opposite of what OP wants, which is a ‘real’ commitment to building a relationship

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